Im a 20yr old female and I am very attractive so Im told, {not been big headed}but I always get the feeling that im not does that sound weird?I mean I always get loads of male attention and I think to myself why? becouse I dont think im goodlooking at all...im quite shy and sometimes find it hard to talk to guys and my mates think im been selfconcious4 no reason...What do u think?
2006-07-06 15:10:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body
You sound just like a former girlfriend of mine. She was incredibly good looking, but she hated her appearance. I was totally frustrated by the situations she would work herself into - stuff like refusing to go out at the last minute because she didn't think any of her ten million outfits fit right. Hopefully you aren't that crazy!
You need to find a way to make yourself believe your friends and admirers. I promise you on everything holy and on my very life itself that if men say you are attractive and give you attention then you ARE attractive!! That's terrific! That's one less thing to worry about for you!! You can now afford to spend time worrying about saving the world or curing cancer or something!
I'm not sure how you can change your psyche - but I promise you, it is definitely your psyche that needs changing - YOU ARE DEFINITELY HOT!!
2006-07-06 15:18:35 · answer #1 · answered by Tiger 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think u should quit thinking about it. I think u may be afraid of relationship due to insecurity. This insucurity stems from the fact that you have a hard time relating to most of the guys you have been meeting or you feel uninterested in the superficial motions that are always in the beginning of a traditional relationship. You feel that Mr. right will just walk in one day like a movie.
So, what you need to do is quit thinking about it and concentrate on things you are interested in, have fun.
Oh, and one last thing...Damn girl, U B Sexy!
2006-07-06 15:15:22 · answer #2 · answered by Tim J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think guys can sense if a girl is up herself, and they hate that. You have a natural beauty about you that obviously shines inside and out. Take a good look in the mirror - you're more gorgeous than u think. Confidence is very sexy, but guys seem to love pretty girls who don't know they're pretty.
2006-07-06 15:15:06 · answer #3 · answered by catsup 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its very healthy to not see yourself as hot as everyone thinks u are , because then u don't get a big head and act like some biaches in the world who think their gods gift to men , as far as the shyness goes try actually just making yourself talk to these guys and maybe you'll see its not so bad.
2006-07-06 15:36:18 · answer #4 · answered by jojo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not unusual at all for people, especially women for some reason, to not see themselves as attractive. There are probably a number of reasons for this, but regardless of why, you should be glad that you're not "stuck on yourself." I married one of the best looking women I had ever met, but she thought of herself as rather plain. We had our share of problems but vanity wasn't one of them.
2006-07-06 15:25:14 · answer #5 · answered by fhornsr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most girls are self conscious, unfortinately.
Give yourself the benefit of the doubt.
2006-07-06 15:14:28 · answer #6 · answered by nandhini s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GET OVA YA SELF AND WAT PPPL THINK BOUT U
2006-07-06 15:13:40 · answer #7 · answered by MiShel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋