What do I do with him?

Question

I have a boyfriend who I been with going on four years. We broke after two years for three months and ended back together. I love this man to death. He knows how much i care for him and love hime. Today he just told me that he likes to look at other girls and that he doesn't see us the same. Due to the fact that i miised around his back when we where first got together. i been trying to make it up ever since. He tells me we are to diffrent and that we want diffrent things. And he has different feelinng for me. I told him that being diffrent is ggod. I had a friend watch him to see if he had another girl and he doesn't. i even asked him to work it out but he selfish. once he has something in hes head thats it. i love this man so much. I never slept with anyone else or missed around again. What do I do? Do I be in pain and let him go or try to keep on fighing for this realionship? Please help me.

Answer 1

If you truly love him...fight for him..

I had the same problem....I really liked dis guy for 2 years. He liked me back then...But I said no...It took me 9 months to get over him. Finally i did and found someone better.

If he thinks of you that way...he's not meant for you.. That's wat my friends alwayz tell me....

Just think of all the negative things about him....
This may sound easy but its so0o not!!! ----Your TRUE LOVE WILL COME....DON"T LOOK BUT WAIT!! :]

Answer 2

Sweetie, don't beat yourself up over things sometimes what you see isn't always the way it is, I was in a relationship like that for 4 years and i found out, after we spilt up that he was cheating on me with a good friend of mine. The thing is if the trust is gone in a relationship it is gone, and by what your saying you are boht unsure of the relationship, no one can tell what to do but remember this what is meant to be will be and there are many more people out there who you can love why live a life full of dread and regret when you can move onto bigger and better things!!
Good luck and remember whatever decision you make it will be right!

Answer 3

Sounds like he's over it, and u should get over it too. Sometimes when one person messes up, even if it was only once, tha't enough to ruin the relationship for good. It'll never work as long as he's still holding on to that slip up on your part. Remember love is forgiveness and if he really cares about saving u'r realtionship he will move past it, and if he dosen't find it in him to forgive u then u have no choice but to move on. It'll hurt but only for a little while.

Answer 4

Sorry girl but you lost all the trust that he had in you and the only reason he is still with you is because he is waiting on someone else sorry but 90% of the time when the trust is gone you cant get it back and as far as spying on him if he catches you you are finished good luck I hope you are in the other 10%

Answer 5

A relationship cannot exist if one person wants it and the other doesn't. If he doesn't want to be with you, and he keeps on making excuses and reasons, then you should let him go. Even though you've been faithful and want to be with him, it doesn't go two ways in this relationship. Go and find someone who will trust you and love you for who you are. Good luck.

Answer 6

Sometimes we have to walk on different paths, even with people that we love.

He clearly wants to walk a different path now, and he does not want you to walk beside him, so and here's the good part...You get to choose your own path.

You decide where you want to go and what you want from life. If it's meant to be, then your paths will cross again, but you won't know what you are capable of, until you stand up tall and walk your own path.

Good luck and I hope you find somebody better!

Answer 7

We are dogs and we desire to bang many different attractive females everyday. Some of us were born pimps and some are late bloomers. I was born a pimp, in my childhood I became a kungfu master, and eventually graduated from beer brewing school. Maybe he is sick and tired of your constant nagging or maybe you need a boob job or a face-lift? I don't know but regardless, there many men out there who have low standards and would sleep with an ugly chick ... good luck

Answer 8

You need to just let him go, trust me on this, once you have been cheated on you never forget, and if he is anything like me, he we never trust you again, he looks at you and thinks about the other guy you were with, he'll never have the same feelings for you. I suggest moving on with your life, find someone else and don't make that mistake again.

Answer 9

If he doesn't want to be with you, there is nothing you can do about that. Everyone goes through heartbreak, but we get over it and live our lives. It's going to be rough at first, but you will start thinking of him less as the days go by and you'll fnd someone new in time. Good luck.

Answer 10

Never ever hold back someone who wishes to leave you, coz one day you'll just regret wasting your time over a man who doesn't deserve your love & respect. Find someone who trully loves you and knows how to take care of your emotions.

Life's really like that, sometimes we feel pain over ingratitude boyfriends because of love. Help yourself to overcome that feeling.

Answer 11

Look sweetie, this doesn't sound like an ideal situation for you, and if you stay with or continue to chase after this guy, you will only end up hating him and yourself. Make a clean break now and spare yourself a boatload of heartache.