she nocks when i am getting busy with my wife and then tells me to leave her there. they had a fight 6 times and every time my ex tells me to look at her poor face and kiss it what do i do!!!!
no harmful answers plz!
2006-07-06 15:03:53 · 31 answers · asked by adrien1543 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you know...
my husband was going through the same thing with one of his ex's.
she just called out of the blue. she knows that he's married now and wants nothing to do with her. she just didn't get it. finally one day my husband really let her have it, and then told her that she needs to get lost. that he's with me now, that i'm wearing the ring and i have his name. i am so happy that he stuck by with me and that i didn't let cause a fight between us. she hasn't called since.
maybe you should try that. stick with your wife. tell your ex that you want nothing to do with her and that you gave your name to someone else, someone you love dearly. and don't let this cause a fight between you and your wife. good luck.
p.s.
if that doesn't work i'll get rid of her for ya -k-!!! :) j/k
2006-07-11 12:15:17 · answer #1 · answered by countrybydayrockerbynight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly the restraining order sounds like the best course of action here.
Your ex-girlfriend sounds as though she's just not getting the message-not to mention how upsetting it is for you and your wife to constantly deal with this mess.
So even though you once had a relationship and feel it's over (otherwise why would you be married to someone else now, right?), it's obviously not over for her and you're not doing yourselves or her any favors by continuing to deal with her at all.
The restraining order ought to drive home the fact that it's over. Hopefully then she'll get counseling. If she breaks the order, it'll be mandatory.
Good luck!
2006-07-06 22:09:26 · answer #2 · answered by this_isridiculous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are obviously sending singnals to your ex that there is a possiblity of a future together. That is why ex is still around and why your wife who feels that she needs to be fighting to save this relationship. In other words you are not providing the security needed for a successful relatonship, and your ex sees it and uses it to get between you and wife. To send a clear message to both wife and ex get a restraining order against ex for the wife and you. It may seem harsh but sometimes you need to be a man and mae tough decisions on behalf of your familly.
2006-07-06 22:22:58 · answer #3 · answered by masha_axioutitch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, look at her poor face and kiss it...perhaps an arrangement can be made that your wife will kiss it too. Stranger things have happened. In fact, I feel so sorry for the ex that I want to kiss her too. Let me know. Good luck
2006-07-06 22:07:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well u are in a bind now. You are married and your ex. still wants you not cool man.
Here is what i would do: First: i would lay the rules down and make sure your ex,s is REALLY clear on them. She also needs to NO that your life has changed and you are devoted to your wife now, and NOT HER anymore.
Second: If this doesn't work they the law is going to have to MAKE it clear to her 1 way other another.
2006-07-06 22:11:38 · answer #5 · answered by kristie F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she's a stalker. Get a restraining order.
She has no respect for you or your wife or else she'd stay in her place. Give her a pass for a free ride in apolice car next time she crosses the line.
Why should you care whether or not she passes go or collects $200?
2006-07-06 22:10:58 · answer #6 · answered by 1derous1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the police and have her arrested next time she is at your door and refuses to leave. Have her charged with disturbing the peace. If need be get a restraining order against her. This could get worse and end with someone getting hurt. Deal with it now so that doesn't happen.
LOL
2006-07-06 22:09:24 · answer #7 · answered by triathlon1975 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your Ex sounds craaaaaaazy! No wonder shes your Ex. If the restraining order dont work, and if you really want it to work with your wife, MOVE! Simple.
2006-07-06 22:08:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG Dude you need to like get a restraining order or move or something! Or maybe without your wife go to your ex and tell he straight up, and don't be shy about being brutally honest, tell her you don't like her, you don't want her around, you and her was a mistake and........all that good stuff!
2006-07-06 22:07:13 · answer #9 · answered by Nikki 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should contact the police and have a restraining order sworn out on her. Then when she comes around again, and she will, you call the cops and they arrest her. If you don't do this then you probably still have feelings for her. Good luck
Scott
2006-07-06 22:07:32 · answer #10 · answered by Scooter Ray 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋