I know it's not right but I think this guy is the true love of my life!!!! we've been together for 9 months and we've tryed to stop but we can't leave each other alone...how do you end an affair that is going so good?
2006-07-06 14:49:13 · 10 answers · asked by JeNe 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
he's married too...
we once had an open marriage now it's not...
2006-07-06 14:58:41 · update #1
Guess what, he will not leave his wife for you. right now he has the best of both worlds. hhis wife for comfort and you for fun. sorry but i say this is as far as you will get.
2006-07-06 15:22:29 · answer #1 · answered by tamrick188 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Sometimes it's the excitement that goes along with having an affair that makes it seem so appealing. Try telling your husband, and his wife about the affair. I would be willing to bet it would either end, or two marriages would end rather quickly. Either way you go about it, you are going to have to face the fact that the affair is going to have very far reaching side-effects on your marriages, so you might just as well come clean. Good luck!!
2006-07-06 22:24:39 · answer #2 · answered by nonya_askme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy. You let the fact that it's wrong stop you. Stop thinking about your own selfish wants ans focus on doing the right thing. Because you're so consumed with the idea that this person is the "love of [your] life", you are not seeing the other possibilities around you. Be strong and you will overcome the temptation to continue something you know isn't right.
2006-07-06 21:55:06 · answer #3 · answered by oneladyice1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever heard of polyamory? The term means "many loves". The ways of communal love are many.
If you believe your husband would be interested and his wife would be interested you could talk to your husband and he his wife. In many cases this works out great then there is no more cheating or lying.
Read over the sites I have given below and they will give you information about Polyamory. There are many benefits from it.
2006-07-06 22:17:41 · answer #4 · answered by pinelake302 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might seem that good because it is always better to sneak something you can't really have. I have wanted to cheat but haven't for the simple fact I know that nothing will ever com inbetween my family. Is a fling or cheap thrill worth losing my everything??? You just have to get up enough will power.
2006-07-06 21:54:51 · answer #5 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop doing all that stupid affair thing.Always remember the first time you meet your hubby how the love first strike you.all the good thing he have done to you and this is what you return back the favour.thing if he do this to you what will you feel?if he is so good why he do the affair thing to his wife,right???so the best guy is still your hubby he will be your friend,your boyfriends,your hubby,every thing..
2006-07-06 22:21:50 · answer #6 · answered by sandmansg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats the point in being married then ? At this point your just playing house. If this other guy is soooooooooooo much better then why dont you get a divorce and go with him ?
2006-07-06 21:55:53 · answer #7 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's wrong & you gals have enough nerve to trash us men whats up with that? you dont have to do anything cause both guys will end up leaving you anyways. the guy you are having an affair with he already knows that he cant trust you cause you are cheating on your b/f so you snooze you loose.
2006-07-06 21:59:48 · answer #8 · answered by mannygoody_2shoes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out now while you can. It does not pay to cheat and if he is cheating on his wife, just think what he would do to you if you were with him. Don't you know he will cheat on you too?
2006-07-06 22:07:01 · answer #9 · answered by tashanthoy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your husband about it
2006-07-06 21:53:19 · answer #10 · answered by zqx357 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋