This biotch is trying to destroy my marriage. The day my daughter was born she called me 5 hours after the baby was born to tell me shiot that was going on with my husbands ex-wife. My husband sat in the room talking to his mother about his past... as he does EVERY DAMN DAY since we have been married for over a year... and I mean everyday. I am so sick of it. I am just wondering what to do? I have told her and my husband I am so tired of it and it needs to stop and IT JUST KEEPS GOING ON!!!!!!!!!!!! I AM AT THE POINT WHERE I CANT WAIT TIL SHE DIES!!!!!!!!! I FEEL REALLY BADLY FOR THAT!!!!!!!!!!! TERRIBLE IN FACT!
2006-07-06 14:12:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anna Q 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If they won't stop they obviously do not have respect for you. Your husband included. Let your husband know if he likes the past so much he can go back to the past and live there since he can't let it go. Tell him if he can't live in the present and keeps bringing it up or talking about it to his mother then they can have each other and your out. There are way to many fishes in the sea to put up with that s**t! I know all to well about crappy mother n laws I think I have the worse one. Although I could never wish anyone dead. That just seams evil to me. She has never excepted me in the 16years I have known her. She use to follow me. Would tape me dropping my kids off at school,tape my friends and I talking on the phone. Very weird! Anyway Good Luck ! Don't put up with it!
2006-07-06 14:26:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have huge issues with my Mother In Law as well. I would suggest getting some counseling. Even if you go to one session, your husband may see that you are serious and not just threatening. Your husband has to set boundaries with her. Bringing up the past with an Ex wife is absolutely not good for your marriage. Try and make some memories of your own and try and stay away from the Mother In Law. Be kind and don't let her know she is an irritant. She will thrive off of that. Hope that helps!
2006-07-06 21:23:09 · answer #2 · answered by oil_paint_artist 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop talking to her and spending time with her. Get caller ID so you don't have to answer the phone when she calls. Even if you leave your husband, you may still have to deal with her because of her being your child's grandmother.
2006-07-06 21:20:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not much you can do if both of them won't stop. Tell your husband if it continues then you're leaving. Don't put up with the **** and then you won't have to deal with it. Good luck.
2006-07-06 21:16:05 · answer #4 · answered by heidielizabeth69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uch, storys between mothers in laws and kids in law... ok look its normal, she loves her kid and cant imagine him/her not talking to her for a day... try movin FAAAAAAAAR away, itll be hard, but itll make it much more special on the few times youll meet
2006-07-06 21:18:28 · answer #5 · answered by contentwithlife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋