I was talking yesturday with my best girlfriend on the phone...I told her that Iam trying to change my bad habbits...and I need her beside these days more than ever..anyway...I was telling her I have some stupids ideas and thoughts these days...and I was laughing when I said " I had a thought that we have to breakup our friendship (while iam laughing) see what stupids ideas I have !!!" she asnwered " well dont leave it as and idea..make an action !!!"
what do uthink she menat by that ...BTW we have been friends for 15 years now !
2006-07-06 14:05:02 · 11 answers · asked by friendly GIRL 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
hon the only way you'll know is if you ask her out right, but i love a
challenge, I'd put it into action and see what she does
2006-07-06 14:10:00 · answer #1 · answered by diva anne 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Apparently she felt you were blaming her for some of your bad habits, and by suggesting that you break up your friendship with her it seems to me she may agree with you and is suggesting that you do it and see what happens, after 15 years I think you probably just need a break for awhile.
2006-07-06 14:11:40 · answer #2 · answered by Art P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she was insulted and took you seriously. I think you should phone her as soon as possible and tell her you were only joking and her friendship means a lot to you. Don't worry, if you've been friends 15 years I think you can sort things out.
2006-07-06 14:10:21 · answer #3 · answered by . 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her find out how she took the question, then see if she was drunk or not. if its neither go ahead and stop being her friend, because that is just pathetic, but first talk to her, she may have ment ur bad habits. and mostly important TELL HER HOW U FELT WHEN SHE SAID THAT
2006-07-06 14:10:56 · answer #4 · answered by gothicangelalways 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sound to me like she is welcoming the fact that she need to get some space. If she cannot be there for you during your times of trial...then boot her out the door...or ask her..what do you mean by that.!
2006-07-06 14:08:39 · answer #5 · answered by dilynjen67 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you may have hurt her feelings and so she said something rather mean. You should talk to her though and ask her what she weant.
2006-07-06 14:09:47 · answer #6 · answered by flowergirl1994 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she didn't take it as light hearted as you. Why don't you call her and ask??? Tell her you truely want her friendship, it that is what you want.
2006-07-06 14:09:39 · answer #7 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maby u should just ask her if she was serious she could just want a break from being friends to meet new ppl
2006-07-06 14:08:37 · answer #8 · answered by hotnfun_2006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you said it and me translating what she is trying to say is don't tell me go do it.I think yall need sit down and talk and ask her the questions you is asking us
2006-07-06 14:08:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may have been kidding, or being sarcastic...My friend and I joke a lot too...I hope she wasn't serious!
2006-07-06 14:12:20 · answer #10 · answered by LoLa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋