Okay..same story as always..caught my wife (of 6 yrs.) cheating & found out her evil plots she and the guy set out to do to me....I Bounced and now filing for divorce, but It's been over 2 1/2 months since I have had some "Special Attention", but I feel guilty just thinking about it. Why? and am I wrong for just wanting a woman for good sex right now?
FYI - Please don't go there about the Rosie and her Five Sister Thing....that only can sustain a MAN for so long. lol
2006-07-06 14:04:56 · 20 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There isn't anything wrong with a good fu**ing friend. It's just your not ready. "Special attention" requires a special woman. And apparently that isn't what your looking for. Go Figure!
2006-07-06 14:20:04 · answer #1 · answered by ~Jessica~ 4 · 12⤊ 5⤋
SO whats the question? Why you feel guilty? You feel guilty becasue legally you are not supposed to do such a thing until you and the wife and the judge have signed all the neccessary documents. 2 1/2 months IS NOT A LONG TIME! go another year or two and then come back whining! Using a woman for sex is wrong also, but theres alot of cheap hoes out there that will probably do you -married or not! Your feelings are not "wrong" but they are not "right"!
2006-07-06 21:09:56 · answer #2 · answered by ChrissyLicious 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See this never makes sence to me...........
you caught her cheating, she is the one who wronged the relationship, but you feel guilty?? why?? cause you weren't out there screwing every Tina,Daphney and Harriet?
I think If you want a little lovin.........go for it, doesn't mean you are going to get married again, you did nothing wrong, so you shouldn't have to pay the price because she did something wrong!
Just don't jump into another long relationship, maby you need to sew some wild oats and have a good time for a while..........Good luck and there are pleanty of females out there that would have sex just to have sex and not wanting a long term relationship just gotta find them............
2006-07-06 21:19:52 · answer #3 · answered by Merisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You feel guilty because you should. You're a man, not an animal, you can sustain. It's only been 2 1/2 months! That's nothing!
2006-07-06 21:11:17 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well she fcuked with your head; it takes a lot for us to get over that. Join some of the men's groups on yahoo and the guys will help you to get back on track. I joined 6 years ago and just recently I passed the maths exam at College by 90%; a clear 9% above the next highest student. The men's movement has really been there for me.
2006-07-06 21:15:55 · answer #5 · answered by welcome_to_how_things_will_be 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't think its you feeling guilty because everyone wants sex, but remember, everyone doesn't have good sex. I think that it is that urge to have someone there and that feeling of sensation...I am feeling you brother...you have waited long enough...just know also that having a sex buddy can also be dangerous, because us as women do tend to fall in love easily, and go on sprees if the man won't love us back.
2006-07-06 21:12:21 · answer #6 · answered by sweetnlow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that sounds very hard for you, sorry. You got married because you were in love right? Maybe you feel guilty because for you sex was made with the loved person and now you are doing that because you need it, ja ja, that's true right? Maybe you need more time to accept your new situation and those guilty felings are going to go away.
2006-07-06 21:14:21 · answer #7 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the marriage was over you would be divorce not seperated and no you should not use a woman for good sex if you want sex rent a whore other wise find someone who will love and understand you and move on to bigger and better things life has to offer
2006-07-06 21:11:43 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No reason to feel guilty ~ you're going through a lot right now. Just be careful who you choose to hook up with or you may cause more drama.
2006-07-06 21:16:35 · answer #9 · answered by sms 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it is just a little too soon for you to get involved with anyone right now, in ANY way. Give yourself some time.
2006-07-06 21:10:25 · answer #10 · answered by Roxie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
none at all. everybody needs a lil special attention. and there are plenty of chicks that will just want the same too no strings attached
2006-07-06 21:08:19 · answer #11 · answered by estefany v 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋