I'm not sure If I should still trust my friend.Well he's my ex..we've tried to be friends but it doesn't seem to be working.When we dated he lied to me a few times and kept things from me.Now he's doing it again as a friend.He won't keep his words anymore and he's starting to be mean to me.He's been taking his frustration out on me and he even said he was but he said he was sorry.Its just he's done this to me so many times.I told him if he's going to do this to me again I'm not going to be his friend, because I don't want to be treated that way.So do you think I should stop being friends with him?
2006-07-06 14:00:36 · 14 answers · asked by kpopfan 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If you didn`t get along during your relationship then what makes you think you will get along now?? If he lies to you what are you keeping him around for?? Friends don`t lie to friends. Who cares if he says he`s sorry? It`s actions that count not words. If someone says he`s sorry but then continues to do what bothers you, how sorry can he be? It`s a bunch of crap. Tell him where to shove it!
2006-07-06 14:05:30 · answer #1 · answered by Roxie 6 · 7⤊ 1⤋
Immediately cut ties with him and if he tries to call to "apologize" again tell him you will be getting a restraining order. What he is doing is abusing you and you deserve to be treated with respect. He is no friend, he is a fiend. Tell him to take a hike and find yourself some real friends that will treat you right. Nana
2006-07-06 21:05:58 · answer #2 · answered by nanawnuts 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl please, the only thing he wants from you is your "friend", believe me I tried that friendship after a relationship, I don't know who came up with that but they were definetly not in their right state of mind. Move on, you haven't thats why you still want him close. Hes a loser the sooner you realize it the better it will be for you.
2006-07-06 21:08:29 · answer #3 · answered by MARIA M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely.
2006-07-06 21:06:07 · answer #4 · answered by olelady55 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him some time. mayb he is going through something that he cannot explain, or mayb he doesnt want you to get envolved. sometimes guys do this bcuz guys wanna feel the power...talk to him and explain ERRITHING that is bothering you mayb then he will see how much he is hurting you, and then if he still doesnt change or he doesnt seem to care then mayb u should jus stop trying, but never stop being his friends till he does something bad to you.
2006-07-06 21:05:13 · answer #5 · answered by mamacita106 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do u still WANT to be his friend. think about this. if u really do then talk to him about it, say u dont like what hes doing and help him improve.
but personaly he doesnt seem worth it, u broke up with him for a reason
2006-07-06 21:04:54 · answer #6 · answered by kt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you don't have to take that **** from him.But only you can make that decision for yourself because he you let him he will keep on doing i so therefore it's kind of your fault
2006-07-06 21:06:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweety if your uncomfortable how he is treating you and has done the same when you were dating him...What is this saying to you??? You know what to do!!!
Clowmy
2006-07-06 21:10:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no men arent wired to like girls as friends they still hope to be with them i got burned in love seveal times and would leave my wife for a few of them if they wanted me back men are skanks
2006-07-06 21:05:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would, with friends like him who needs enemys. I would simply tell him if he can't treat you decent then he dosent need to come around you.
2006-07-06 21:09:09 · answer #10 · answered by brighteyes62301 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋