in a pickle?

Question

okay so my wifes sister is cheating on her husband. her husband and i are somewhat close ( i hang around with him one in a while) but my wife doesnt want me to tell him. see, he leaves for work at 4am and gets home at around 5pm. and he usally goes straight to sleep. well, his wife has been online talking to a someone for the pst 3 weeks and im pretty sure he has no idea because of his heavy work schedule. anyways they are planning to meet up in a few months for a **** session. i fuccing hate his wife too becuase she fuccin tripps about stupid shitt all the time. what should i do. 1) wait and see if he ever finds out about it 2) tell her husband about it 3) use it against her (threaten to tell her husband) 4) tell her husband the next time he pisses me off.

Answer 1

I would wait until the situation get deep and then tell. Or if you can't wait to get that $@$^%@ in trouble tell him now.

Answer 2

YOU don't owe her a darn thing, just because she's your wife's sister! And what's with your wife, dude, for wanting you not to say anything. It sure sounds like she's supportive of adultery. (Boy, you could sure hold that over her head in case she ever tried something similar!) Tell him. He doesn't deserve the mockery his wife is making of her marriage to him. Heck, even encourage him to show up, cameras flashing, at his cheating spouse's little rendezvous.

Answer 3

Biggest problem if you like this guy is that if he finds out that you know and didn't tell him he will hate you. Maybe you should go about it indirectly and mention that his schedule could be hurting his marriage. That's a real tough one!

Answer 4

I would tell my friend if their spouse is cheating on them. When you talk to him, ask him to not tell his wife that he found out from you.

Answer 5

Just stay out of it completely. Never ever borrow from someone else's problems.

Answer 6

I like drama, I would tell him.