My hubby posted a question on anal sex yesterday (he nervously informed me last night) and after reading the answers I am still no more reassured of proceeding than I was before. Yes he does have 12 inches of manhood in which I normally cant take the lot of in ordinary sex (even after 3 children) and I think that is my biggest fear . My hubby seems to be obsessed with trying anal and believes this would be the ultimate way of him having the whole of me. Please help I really need to kniow of experiences from females.
2006-07-06 13:53:26 · 9 answers · asked by purplem2004 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
12 inches is a lot to take on but I'm sure with a little practice it can be done. The best thing you can do (assuming you have an open mind about this and really are willing to try) is practice on your own with a toy. You can buy one online pretty easily. Two tips that are very important to remember, especially in your case considering you have a rather well endowed husband, are 1. lube and lots of it and 2. When the time comes for him to enter you he needs to take his time.
Practice until you are comfortable and ready to try but explain to your man that he should not rush it. I realize he's going to be eager and excited about it but he needs to put your comfort first here. If done properly and with mutual pleasure in mind anal sex can be VERY enjoyable for both the man and woman.
2006-07-06 14:27:04 · answer #1 · answered by dreamweaver_316 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Lube definitely helps. Before you do it with your boyfriend you should try touching and playing in that area by yourself so you will know what to expect and how to relax. Use a toy or your fingers in the shower or bath and explore. Then later with your boyfriend, you can help guide him along and a pace that works for both of you. Your boyfriend should know if he is playing in the backyard, he should be prepared to get a little dirty. You might want to try cleaning out beforehand with an enema. This might make everyone feel better for the event. A hint for your boyfriend. He should be motivated to see that you Really Enjoy this. If you don't like it, he might never expect to do this again. Enjoy this. A lot of people do.
2016-03-27 07:08:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is alot to take in...........no pun intended........I would think that would be way to much for anal sex. But if you want to try use plenty of lubrication and lots of foreplay to relax the anal muscles. If it hurts just say stop. Its your body. You can tear the rectal liining and cause alot of bleeding or even fistulas. I would suggest using a condom also as there are orgasisms that grown in the colon that no man would want to get in his penis.
2006-07-06 14:01:32 · answer #3 · answered by lifes_heart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, he needs to quit pushing the idea or it will just turn you just off. Next like any other sex, you need to relax. As well, use plenty of lubrication. Good Luck.
2006-07-06 13:57:25 · answer #4 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i was you and i know that your husband but were did that come from is it him or has he tryed it on somebody else personally i wouldn't try it because i use to work in hosiptal faculity and some of my patient did that no lie and after a while your anal loose it grip and it start to hang out no joke please think very seriously about it
2006-07-06 14:06:52 · answer #5 · answered by poda 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
its goood only if you enjoy it try it use some baby oil for lubricant good luck
2006-07-06 13:56:09 · answer #6 · answered by asoka d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is for some people and not for others. It is not for me, it hurts.
2006-07-06 13:59:52 · answer #7 · answered by jbpammy004 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
IM A MALE AND I KNOW THAT ONCE HE DOES IT ONCE HE WILL WANT TO DO IT AGAIN AND AGAIN. I WOULD DO IT ONLY IF YOU CAN PUT A DILDO UP HIS ASS..
2006-07-06 15:32:00 · answer #8 · answered by tamrick188 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ky jelly and have fun
2006-07-06 14:17:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋