I felt traded in for a younger woman, she is 15 years younger than he -and I am an absolutly wonderful woman, wife. And i look fabulous, not to sound conceited, but i am fit, thin, in shape, never once been overweight) tall blonde and educated w a wonderful job.
2006-07-06 13:09:21 · 9 answers · asked by Stephanie S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I feel for you - you did nothing wrong and you look great, there should be no reason for him to cheat, yet he did it anyway. Well, be glad he's out of your life because his new wife is going to get the same treatment sooner or later. At least now you can focus on finding someone who will truly love you. Continue to be strong and best of luck!!
2006-07-06 13:21:55 · answer #1 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your upset because you don't understand what she has over you. Since you do have so much going for you.... who the hell is she to steal your man. If you are such a steal, some other man will come along and appreciate you all the more. Let your ex marry his bimbo... he will regret it in 5 years when he realizes he has nothing in common with this younger fling.
2006-07-06 13:14:34 · answer #2 · answered by manderstwin1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because when you love someone and you commit yourself to spend your life with them you expect that they will commit to the same thing. It hurts to feel rejected even if it is by an insensitive prick. No one deserves what he did to you. If he was having issues in your relationship, he should have talked to you about those instead of breaking his vows. Next time you get married choose wisely. I recommend seeking the counsel of God on this one. Church is a great place to find a man who has moral standards already in place.
2006-07-06 13:25:21 · answer #3 · answered by tallgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love the answers the other ladies are giving you. I agree. Let the @$$ marry the stupid bimbo. I'm so proud of you that you look great and are well educated. Now, go find your sugar daddy and mold him the way you want him. Make him serve you for awhile. You've earned it. RRRRR
2006-07-06 13:23:59 · answer #4 · answered by just me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel too bad. She had an affair with him while he was married to you. She will probably have an affair with someone else that is married and your ex will feel awful. When that happens he will call to tell you what a mistake he made. Be gracious in your victory but you are allowed to laugh out loud in private.
2006-07-06 13:45:54 · answer #5 · answered by euin47 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who wouldnt be mad sweetie just move on cause he will get what he deserves. I mean its bad enough he cheated on you but then to make a parade out of your hurt and pain and marry the broad that is insult to injury so I can completely understand your pain but trust me God will deal with him and his disrespect just treat him right anyway and let God have his way. I promise your ex will be crying when its all said and done. The same think happened to me in a way my baby mom cheated on me and still talks to the dude she slept with they are not together but it still hurts. he wants to marry her though but she also will get what she deserves just like your ex!
2006-07-06 13:20:22 · answer #6 · answered by Justin D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because part of you still loves him, and it hurts knowing that your idiot husband couldnt see all the good in you that everyone else see's, its not you though he's the one thats lacking in morals, dont worry what comes around goes around, more then likely after a couple of years he'll cheat on her, or better yet.. she'll cheat on him and trade him in for a new model.. but its not you, he's just an idiot ..
2006-07-06 13:13:42 · answer #7 · answered by preciosa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably just got tired of sex with you and found another woman he supposedly loves and shares great sex with. But sooner or later it'll suck for them too. This happens to every single married couple.
2006-07-06 13:15:54 · answer #8 · answered by Kel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you still love him. but its understandable.Girl go out and have fun. enjoy the single life.Besides do u really think they will last?yeah rite. She well end up leaving his old a**. And at the end he will get what he deserves.heard of Karma? Karma is real.. Believe me
2006-07-06 14:25:26 · answer #9 · answered by Moniluv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋