on me & her mother because of her death and they did not let us to attend the funeral. Me & her mother are planning to get married and are Bishop at are church said that god forgave us and has are blessing to get married. I know that my wife is looking down at us in heaven and has forgiven me for what I have done. Me & her mother are DEEP IN LOVE and have God's GRACE behind us. My question is do you think that it was wrong for are family not to let us attend the funeral. Me and her mother feel that she would of wanted us to attend and pay respect to her.
2006-07-06 13:03:09 · 20 answers · asked by Jeff 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You're crazy and need some serious help.
2006-07-06 13:09:08 · answer #1 · answered by heidielizabeth69 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
After reading your question, and all of the posts following it, I must say that it really disturbs me how candid you are about this..... You must not have had "any" respect or love" for your wife, or you wouldn't be so consumed over this kind of question right now anyway!? You'd be in mourning, grieving, and still soul searching as to How and Why you could do this in the sight of God! It's very clear that you followed Satan's plan for you then, so I'd be asking some soul searching questions to make sure I WAS forgiven, and ask God to show you the evil of your ways.
Here you are worried about not attending the funeral of the very person you caused to commit suicide, instead of worrying about the fact that it was "because of you" that this happened to begin with.
I shall pray for you.
2006-07-06 13:45:35 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Trucker 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should ve ben allowed to the funeral but you have to under stand that the reason she is there is because she was so distraught over your affair. Personally I don't believe God is blessing you and her mother getting married. I do know he forgives you for your werong of adultery but he doesnt bless sin im sorry you and her mother have a sexual lustful relationship and that is all God will not bless that and if you had any sense of decency you wouldnt be with the mother anymore and she should really be ashamed of herself for continuing a relationship with you when the whole reason her daughter is dead is because you guys are lustful and selfish. God forgives you but you need to do the right thing leave it alone and move on because you caused enough hurt and pain in that family.
2006-07-06 13:13:26 · answer #3 · answered by Justin D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if you were so in love with her mother, then why the hell did you marry her for?Now that shes gone, she doesn't care anymore because once you're gone, what can you do? And if that was my family, i wouldn't let you attend either, because do you really want to cause even more drama at the funeral? There might be more than just one funeral.
2006-07-06 13:11:28 · answer #4 · answered by lola 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you some 14 year old, coming up with a story to get people all ticked off at u??
Just in case you're not, if I was the family, and you 2 caused the death of my loved one, I wouldnt allow you to come to the funeral either.... That is ohhh so WRONG!!!
2006-07-06 13:24:35 · answer #5 · answered by Katz 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG, I hope you feel guilty for the rest of your life because you and the old hag are the reason she committed suicide. No, the family is not wrong for not letting ya attend the funeral, I hope you rot in hell, why were you having sex with her mom in the first place? How sick are you? You need some serious help.
2006-07-06 13:18:26 · answer #6 · answered by the*cellphone*chik 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What a slime bucket u are.. u and her mother, God may of forgiven you but wow i doubt seriously if your wife has.. if she did she wouldnt of bothered with committing suicide ...Im sorry i cant find anything nice to say to you, you destroyed a person, and how a mother could possibly continue a loving relationship with a man , knowing that its the reason why her own flesh and blood killed herself is beyond me.. NOPE I THINK THE FAMILY IS RIGHT.. u disrespected her in life , why on earth would u want to respect her in death.. THEY ARE EXACTLY RIGHT!!
2006-07-06 13:10:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She committed suicide because you hurt her so badly. Maybe God does forgive you (he forgives everyone who asks), but her family has every right to keep you away from the funeral. In their minds, you killed her, hands down. But do you really think she wants to see the two people who caused her to take her own life show up at her funeral? That would just be insult to injury.
2006-07-06 13:11:57 · answer #8 · answered by DakkonA 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have no respect for your deceased wife. Her own mother had no respect for her either. The family made the best choice of not telling you both. How can you do that to your wife.
2006-07-06 13:16:16 · answer #9 · answered by beenie 21 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stop lying on GOD you and the mother need to rot in hell what church would let you minister there after this the wife should have shot you and the hag i would have watched them plant you two its people like you that the world has turned to sin and more sin who have they gotten to look up to
2006-07-06 13:11:14 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is something you will have to figure out yourself!!! Holy cow that is messed up. If I were looking down on you two it would be hard not to spit! As far as I can tell (if this isn't some kinda joke) is that you speak of paying your respect for her....well if you had any kind of respect for her you wouldn't have cheated on her. Good luck on this one.
2006-07-06 13:11:05 · answer #11 · answered by eva diane 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋