I'm almost fifty, i live with my parents, and i've only had sex twice
is this normal?
2006-07-06 13:01:57 · 33 answers · asked by Master Pacino 2 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Other - Arts & Humanities
Dude, let me apologize for everyone who is going to make fun of you now because you probably don't want to admit this even online. By the norms of society, no, you should have moved out about 30 years ago and then some. Why do you live with your parents now? If there is a reason (to take care of them) etc., then that's cool but if you have no other reason, you need to get an apartment, get a pet for the lonliness and start seeing people! In my eyes, it's never too late to start!
Good luck man!
2006-07-06 13:07:06 · answer #1 · answered by Tact is highly overrated 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
If you only wanted to have sex twice, then it is not a problem. If you are having problems meeting people, then you need to get out more, get involved with a hobby group, or join an organization (political, social, etc) join a gym, or do volunteer work.
As for living with your parents: Who's to say that's wrong? With the price of real estate these days, and every landlord under the sun thinks they can get $1,200 a month for some closet they want to pass off as an apartment, maybe staying at home isn't a bad idea. Unless of course, you are unable to leave home.
Do you have any disabilities that would keep you home? Is it that you don't want to live alone?
The fact that you are asking this question suggests that you aren't happy. You need to take small steps to change your life. Find out where you can live and how you will be able to afford your new house/apartment. Think of ways to find new employment, if affording your new place is a problem.
Most of all, be open to meeting new people. But, if you're only looking for sex, then a relationship is not what you want. I don't need to tell you how to take care of that.
2006-07-06 13:29:07 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Grudge 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I would think it would be time to get out. Of course it depends on the circumstances--do they really need you? Or do you need them? The still living with your parents is the part that is the most abnormal unless you have a good reason. If you werent still living at home, you would probably have a wife, and that would take care of the sex!!
2006-07-06 13:07:25 · answer #3 · answered by no/evil/surmiser 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what you think about it. First of all, there are many bad aspects of sex. It robs you of precious life energy (chi) and thus, weakens your lungs, hearts, and kidneys. It also attracts spirits who are awaiting entry into a new body to be reborn. If you're masturbating or having sex with protection, then the spirit is attracted, then unable to complete its mission. In other words, you're messing with the spirit world. In the West, people have a tough time believing anything they cannot prove with their own two eyes.
2006-07-06 13:07:30 · answer #4 · answered by lme_888 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well why do you live with your parents? have you always lived with them or are you living with them now to help take care of things? bcuz if thats the case then there's no problem. if you've had sex twice, that isn't bad. people should wait for marraige to have sex, and im guessing you aren't married, but that's alright. some people die virgins, but there's seriously nothing wrong with that. they just want to save themselves for the right person.
now, if you are living with your parents for no real reason, then there is a problem. you should get a good job and live on your own. but like i said, if you are living with them for other reasons that are beneficial to them, then no there's no problem.
don't let people get to you. you're not a freak, you're not a loser. just live on your own if you're not helping your parents.
2006-07-06 13:07:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes u do have a problem and no its not normal its sad just plain sad! Move out of ur parents house and try blind dates!
2006-07-06 13:22:23 · answer #6 · answered by uaallstarcheerleader2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You need to get job so you can afford your own house and then you can find a girl that you can spend the rest of your life with.
2006-07-06 13:05:06 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ Jamie ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who did you have sex with them two time a hooker or your mother got out and get you a hooker or a crack hoe and **** probably catch aids and die though but yet just find some really fat ugly women they will give it up and usally got pretty good **** cause now one want to have sex with them
2006-07-06 13:06:35 · answer #8 · answered by abramelin_the_wise_mage 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey im 15, had sex twice and still live with my parents too. ur not that bad off
2006-07-06 13:05:54 · answer #9 · answered by thebluesteel1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who determines what is "normal?" This would be normal for you. I wouldn't worry, the right one just hasn't come along yet.
Good luck
Hope
2006-07-06 13:08:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋