ok well i have this freind and shes not the most attractive girl shes really wierd and annyoing around guys, shes fat, she does every drug you can imajine, shes ruining her life, she only goes to church for the hott guys. she thinks she can get any guy she wants and her standards are way too high for the way she looks ( no offense to her) how do i tell her niceley that shes ruining her life?
2006-07-06 13:01:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
remember one thing the true hurts but it can also save her take her a side and tell her nice as you can .
2006-07-06 13:05:49 · answer #1 · answered by mary m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to say but, she's probably not going to be able to change until she quits doing drugs. People who do a lot of drugs get out of controll and there is no reasoning with them. Tell her that she needs to quit acting so childish around guys, that she needs to dress, and make up a little better or she's never going to get one. See what she says to that...
2006-07-06 20:08:52 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there isnt really a nice way to tell her that you just gotta lay it out on the line and if she takes it the wrong way then she does but one day she will thank you for telling her how you feel because she will realize friends will be there a lot longer than drugs and guys!
2006-07-06 20:06:49 · answer #3 · answered by Eva 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just plain out tell her! If shes a friend then u can be honest with her! She needs serious help! Maybe try to see what made her this way?! Something happened to her for her to act out like this.
2006-07-06 20:06:35 · answer #4 · answered by jjsassy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just sit her down and jently talk to her... Try to tell her how she is ruiening her life. That you would like it if she stopped taking drugs. Also try to send her to one of them places were if your addicted to drugs they help you stop.
~Rachel~
2006-07-06 20:06:33 · answer #5 · answered by Rae Rae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋