should i forgive a man that cheated on me when i was pregnant with his child?

Answer 1

You should have a good talk with him and see what his plans are for you guys' future. When a woman becomes pregnant it is a very difficult time for both the mother and father. Too many uncertainties.... If he feels remorse and promises that it was nothing, then yes, I would forgive him and move on. But if he acts like it's nothing and he doesn't care about hurting you, then move on baby and find happiness in your child, because there will be so much there when he or she arrives. Keep your head up and look out for number one, and that's you until the baby comes.

Answer 2

All depends--first of all, are you married with him? What kind of relationship do you have with him? Do You and he live together like husband and wife? Those are important factors in the decision making.

I had a husband who cheated--I forgave him. I not only forgave him because he was my husband---he also became a the father of my child and the child's needs where above mine. In addition to that, I do bewlieve that every man will cheat at least once on his woman or wife. Men are simply made of a different sexuality than women, and as a woman I need to be able to accept it and live with it, or I will end up having to live a lonely life.

What's also important is what's in your heart for the father of your child. Do you truly love him? Enough to be able to forgive him?(Forgiveness means that you are able not to bring that misdeed of his up again). Can you live with the fact?

In my case it took a while, but I came to the conclusion that in essence I was not the first woman he had and therefore it was unlikely that he would compare me. I also concluded that it was better to establish a good relationship despite the cheating then to leave him, because I simply loved him, and so that was good enough.

If you are capable of truly forgiving him then I would say forgive him. But before you toss the subject of his cheating totally out, talk to him and try to find out why he cheated on you. Sometimes men only cheat because other women make it too easy for them, sometimes they cheat because of the comfort, and sometimes they cheat because it is a sport for them. A lot of men have to validate themselves by having plenty of women, so it might be worthwhile to try and find out why he cheated.

Answer 3

Forgive? If you can. But don't stay with someone who cheated on you when you needed him most. It probably wasn't the only time and if he can do it while you're pregnant he will likely do it any time it suits him. And don't fall for any of his lame excuses, like saying you were preoccupied with your pregnancy and he got lonely. It will always be something with people like him.

Answer 4

If you think can forgive him then do so but end the relationship there. You will never forget and all that can happen is for you to privately seethe with remembrance. That will make for a nasty break-up later.

Answer 5

Thats a hard one. its hard to trust anyone after they have cheated on you. If you cant trust him and I mean really trust him with no doubts! then try it. You do have a child invovled now and thats a big issue. Do whats in the best for the child and not for him.

Answer 6

Everyone deserves forgiveness--so, Yes, forgive him. But don't go back to him again. He has already showed you who he is, don't forget it! Move forward in your life, not backwards.

Answer 7

you should forgive him. but that does not mean you should forget. dump his sorry butt. if he did it once, with you pregnant no less, then he will do it again. and shug, i hate to say this, but that one time is probably the only one you know about. there were others. trust me.

Answer 8

sure forgive him, but don't stay with him...if he's cheated once, he's likely to do it again.

Answer 9

Forgive yes, do that for your own well being, Take him back? no effin way! don't give away your dignity.

Answer 10

You can forgive him in your heart... but as for staying with him... HELL NO!