We've been together for over a year and he tells me all the time that he want me to have his son and I want to have it to. How do I tell him I want to have this baby?
2006-07-06 12:33:29 · 24 answers · asked by Mrs. Dort 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Show him your Yahoo! screename... then jump on him.
In all seriousness though, just tell him you're ready!
2006-07-06 12:36:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all whose to say you will have a son,secondly he's wants you to have his baby but yet didn't ask you to be his wife,and third why only after a year do you feel obligated to give him a baby and make him understand that you are serious about giving it to him?
Do you know how many kids are in this world because some man asked a woman to have their baby and then as soon as the baby was born they were no where to be found, became a deadbeat dad,or said the famous that's not my baby.And here you're willing to change your life and bring another life into the world for a person that doesn't even believe you want to have his baby.
A man asked a woman to have his baby and at first she was skeptical and then she said what the hell we've been together for 3 1/2 years and she had the baby a little girl that is the spitting image of her father that wanted a baby so bad the funny thing is he hasn't taken care of me any of the 26 1/2 years I've been on this planet. GOOD LUCK
2006-07-06 12:49:42 · answer #2 · answered by kiss4virgo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please,please,please...before you even consider having a baby, make sure that you have a good education. You're putting things in the wrong order. After you and your boyfriend have completed your educations,and have jobs so that you can provide for a baby(boy OR girl),and AFTER you are married for a while and are sure that the two of you are compatable and able to properly care for and nurture a child for at least 18 years,THEN and only then should you consider becoming pregnant.
2006-07-06 15:55:06 · answer #3 · answered by Sunshine 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all you should wait. you never know where the relationship is heading to. also its only been a year you are still getting to know each other. my bf used to tell me that he wanted more children he has a child from a previous relationship. well i ended up pregnant . when i told him that i was he had told me to get a abortion. i got rid of him. we were together for 2 years. so in reality you do not want this to happen to you. i have a 3 month old baby girl.
2006-07-06 13:05:50 · answer #4 · answered by beenie 21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit him down and straight out tell him. Maybe if your both that serious you need to get married and know that your in this together. Tell him how you feel and listen to what he has to say too. If he really wants to make this work and is serious he will back you up in what you want too.
2006-07-06 12:38:25 · answer #5 · answered by new mom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and your boyfriend sound either very young, or very immature. Do your future children a favor, and get married first.
If the marriage is a success, then start a family. Babies are a gift from God, whether they are boys or girls. Will the two of you love a little girl?
2006-07-06 12:47:59 · answer #6 · answered by Shirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he hasn't given you an engagement ring, you two haven't set a wedding date - then he couldn't possibly be that serious.
Be smart, stand up for yourself. If you have a baby now without marriage, he has more right to walk away.
Wait to see if he's serious. Remember the old kids song...
First comes love, then comes marriage...
2006-07-06 13:36:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's serious...and you are serious...you should get married first, if being together 24/7 doesn't cause problems, then you plan your family.
Have a child now, get in some stupid argument, he leaves, guess who's raising a kid by themselves with no money?
2006-07-06 12:39:04 · answer #8 · answered by J Somethingorother 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a romantic dinner. After dinner start getting physical. As the action progresses, tell him, "Let's go make that baby we've been talking about!" Then go for it!
2006-07-06 12:38:27 · answer #9 · answered by stewbdoosmrs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You wait until he proposes marriage (or you propose to him)!
Really, trust me, your kids will appreciate that you've made this commitment before you drag them into the world.
Having a baby isn't something you do to show a guy you love him...It's something you do because you're committed to a LIFETIME of raising another human being.
2006-07-06 12:38:22 · answer #10 · answered by abfabmom1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off, is it a son you guys want or a Child? becasue you might not have a boy. but if your okay with anything just tell him, okay baby I stopped taking my birth control and I am ready to have your baby. and see how he reacts
2006-07-06 12:40:38 · answer #11 · answered by fandj4ever 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋