I am 16 years old.A guy but anytime I listen to some r&b or love songs or just begin to think about somethings or my friends, I get very emotional.I don't like this feeling.What do I do?
2006-07-06 12:24:39 · 8 answers · asked by Deejay 3 in Health ➔ Men's Health
well ur going through stressful times and u just need to let ur emotions out.... no 1 likes the feeling but it happens to every1!!! im 13 and i think about things when i hear music like that and no 1 likes it! my mommy told me that teen years are the hardest and some of the most stressful years of out lives... so dont worry im wit u on all of dis and so is every1 els! it also means ur a sensitive guy and u cnt find alot of them anymore!!!
2006-07-06 12:30:18 · answer #1 · answered by why hello there 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Puberty can be a rough time emotionally for guys and girls. Your hormones fluctuate without warning and can be triggered by any number of things resulting in different emotional responses.
These feelings are not bad, wrong, or something to dislike. They're normal. Chances are, as your hormones level out your emotions will calm down. Don't stress over your emotions and when you're feeling overly emotional, just take a couple of deep breaths and remember that there's nothing wrong with you and that everything will be fine.
2006-07-06 19:34:42 · answer #2 · answered by Jen Diamond 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 16. You have millions of hormones racing around in your system, and there is no way you are going to get through it without a few emotional upheavals. So let it come, and let it go. the trick is to not hang on to any feeling. Just acknowledge it, and put on a different CD.
2006-07-06 19:31:05 · answer #3 · answered by Delora Gloria 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oddly enough, guys have hormone changes (like women) but with different hormones. Thus the reason for the swings.
2006-07-06 19:56:28 · answer #4 · answered by Kelli 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't lsiten to the music and don't think about your friends. Don't allow yourself any emotion at all and soon you can be as repressed and dead inside as I am. Yay!
2006-07-06 19:38:53 · answer #5 · answered by monkeymanelvis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got Soul.
2006-07-07 05:18:51 · answer #6 · answered by Dondare 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry by the time your 20 you will hopefully be a lot less self obsessed.
2006-07-06 19:33:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because your a big girls blouse.
2006-07-11 13:06:07 · answer #8 · answered by NJ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋