i have a big problem?

i hope shes not having twins

2006-07-06 12:20:06 · answer #1 · answered by lovesugarkisses 4 · 1⤊ 8⤋

It looks like there are not many twins or twins parents around here.

Yeah, it is your problem as well. Do all you can to help but your folks should get involved since you guys are too young to understand the many problems.

I personally believe that she should have the baby but that has more to do with your parents.

Keep in mind that whatever the decision it’s going to last a lifetime. Since she is your twin your two lives will be affected similarly.

She’s not leaving you and you’re not leaving her. Get it out of your head you need to do the same or speed things up for yourself. You have plenty of time to do this and each of you will have kids at different times. It becomes a real help since one helps the other at the right time. If she has her baby you will be very a very important help and naturally will be the one most trusted when she “really” needs help and best advice.

BTW, this is not the end of the world. It actually will be a lot of fun to have a baby around but would have been better if it would have happened to you two at a later time.

If you didn’t know it, you two will be even closer. Although she is going to get a lot of the attention and concern, this is a natural (although early) progression in your lives and closeness.

2006-07-07 06:29:42 · answer #2 · answered by Raylene G. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋

Does your mom know? If she doesnt, have your sis tell her immediatly. it takes a lot of guts and your parents may cry and scream for 2 weeks straight but they will soon get over it and help out. Her life is pretty much ruined now. Abortion is an idea but i would not recomend it. Be prepared that her bf will more likly leave the baby and your sister and not pay for anything. Dont let her take advantage of you. On a night she may want to go out dancing or to a party or just to hang with friends and she will want you to babysit. Dont let her do this to you! well best of luck.

check these websites.

http://www.pregnancyweekly.com/topics/babyname_google2.htm?type=GoogleAdWordsContent&gclid=CMzDsOyi_oUCFRObIgodb01hiA

http://www.teenpregnancy.com/faqs.php?q=what_should_i

2006-07-06 19:35:55 · answer #3 · answered by summer luvver :D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋

With this sort of situation it really isn't your problem. And for second....13 AND PREGNANT. COME ON WHAT WAS SHE THINKING. Now first off abortion may limit her ability to have children at all so that wouldn't be a good idea. Second adoption she can have it open or closed she can know how the kid is doing. Or if she wants to take on this responsibility tell your parents they are going to notice sooner or later....do whats right for the baby.....but I don't agree with abortion...Good luck.

2006-07-06 19:23:37 · answer #4 · answered by Mother2one238 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋

Tell your parents right away.She needs prenatal care asap.Abortion is out of the question.thats murder. Your sister wants to be grown and have sex, then she needs to grow up FAST and be a mother.I dont feel sorry for her at all.Dont let her take advantage of u being the babysitter either.oh and tell her to save all her barbies cuz if its a girl, they will come in handy in about 6 or 7 yrs. They sure are expensive.

2006-07-06 21:53:07 · answer #5 · answered by Moniluv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋

Tell a family member immediatly because of health issue. and her being so young she may not able to give it the right nutrition if she decides to keep it. Personally i think she should have to deal with it. If she didnt want a kid she shouldnt have done it. And there are so many unwanted children everywhere.Unless she got raped.If she got raped get her to a doctor now because of possible std's most likely. Either way she should go to a doctor.

2006-07-06 19:57:12 · answer #6 · answered by ivory714 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋

You don't have a big problem, your sister does.

Tell your mom NOW. Too many difficult decisions must be made and the sooner the better. You need an adult for help with this one.

And don't make this your problem, but do learn from it and be a lot more careful.

2006-07-06 19:21:11 · answer #7 · answered by Lori A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋

be glad it's not you...and take heed of that and don't get pregnant. not at all to say i'm not scared for your sis (i'm 13 too), but just good luck. Oh wow i hope that boy is miserable.

2006-07-06 19:29:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋

hmm... well first she shouldnt be having sex at the age of 13

luckily you were not the one that got pregnet but if you sister decides to keep the baby she is your sister and you should be there for her no matter what but she should not have the baby she is way too young to be caring for a baby

but whatever she does you should support her b/c she is your sister

good luck!

2006-07-06 19:26:02 · answer #9 · answered by nikkig813 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋

ya that bad well the best thing for u to do is to help her out cuz ya she made her own problem but shes ur sis and right now she is confused

2006-07-06 22:14:21 · answer #10 · answered by bootylicious_1baby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋

Try to support her, help her out. Most importantly, learn from her mistake and don't get pregnant so young.

2006-07-06 19:32:58 · answer #11 · answered by band_geek_freak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋

i have a big problem?

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