as a mixed race kid and form a family of multiple mix races-Asian(Japannese) & White, Spanish(Puerto RIcan) White, Black n White it does nto mess the kids up iif anything it opens them to the diversities of the entire world that other children do not have the options to. SO Mixed race marriages are good...for those in love and at one tiem they were and still are in some states in the USA illegal how ignorant is that?
2006-07-06 12:20:23
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answered by Wheels 5
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The one thing I strongly dislike about mixed marriages is that it is often for the foolish reason of love for the other person's physical appearance out of an inferiority complex, and so it doesn't make sense at all why someone can't find someone of their own race or tribe to marry, saving a lot of scorn from society, and preventing the birth of deformed children or the children forming inferiority complex out of being mixed race and/or having parents with different races and the sadness of not being able to identify their own race.
You can love a member of the opposite sex without "polluting" their race, that is a very true form of love, because it shows self-contol and respect towards them and their people and history.
By the way I have love and respect for all mixed race people and have no grudge against those that engage in mixed marriage, because that is their own choice and they will learn from their mistakes, and if they are happy their whole lives, I am happy for them, but I still think it is a mistake and that it should be prevented through some creative way, to stop the many social problems that occur from mixed marriages.
2006-07-06 12:35:23
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answered by S0C1AL1ST 3
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In a free society, one of the most precious and ennobling things a person can experience is a voluntary and nurturing romantic relationship. Because of that, a free person should definitely choose the "mate" he/she feels will enable this experience. Outside opinion should have little bearing.
Of course, in the real world, you must interact with other people. I've known two interracial marriages, and both came to the same conclusion: it was the african-american family that had a harder time accepting it, for they thought their child was "going white". Research how much "purity of the black race" is taught in African American studies programs. This shouldn't deter you, but you should know that a mixed marriage is tougher to sustain - you get less outside support - than a homogonous race one.
Best to you.
2006-07-06 12:24:30
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answered by robabard 5
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I believe that love has not color, and does not determine whether or not you should love or care for that person, just because they are not the same skin tone as you. Many people bring up the kids, well look at it this way, as long as their parents have a strong bond and teach their kids respect for themselves and others, what should it matter. Kids are going to be picked on no matter what we do as parents, cause lets face, kids can be cruel.
2006-07-06 12:15:08
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answered by Anonymous
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I think as a general rule you should date people in your own ethnic group, but feel free to make friends with everyone. Having said that, I have seen so many beautiful people come out of mixed marriages that I would not ever dream of disparaging someone if they honestly are in love. The important thing is to compare values and pray about it. Have a happy day!
2006-07-06 12:12:33
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answered by Cookie777 6
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years in the past i could ought to decline, because of the fact the way i grow to be stated marriage grow to be seen of a guy and a woman, they way little ones could desire to be delivered into the international and so on, yet in todays international each thing has replaced, i'm greater older and wiser, and that i've got my own concepts and the thank you to think of and stay, i've got faith that as long as the two those that are at the same time, regardless besides the fact that if that's a guy or a woman or a guy and a guy or a woman and a woman, that's their lives to do as they sense is powerful. they do no longer seem to be bothering me. Then they should basically choose for it.
2016-12-14 05:01:18
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answered by ? 4
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I'm mixed several times over. Dad is white, mom is arab/african/native american and italian. Mom said it was hard on her growing up; her dad was from the middle east and he married a liberal young nurse and they had a lot of fights about how to raise the kids.
I think it can be hard when two different cultures mix, but races? Not at all.
2006-07-06 13:22:00
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answered by Songbird 5
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Yes! I believe in "mixed marriages" because that is the way it should be. Life is too interesting not to be able to share it with someone who is of a different culture.
I truly believe that God intended for Men to be with Women and the color of their skin ought not and should not enter the equation.
2006-07-06 12:28:08
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answered by Anonymous
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Interracial couples can be quite beautiful. And, one can only suspect that if there were more interracial couples and more mixed race children that pretty soon it would become quite hard for anyone to be a racist. The fact is, most of us are much more mixed than we know or allow ourselves to know. In the end, there is only one race: the human race. We need to learn how to be kind to one another and how to care for each other.
2006-07-06 12:17:58
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answered by Anonymous
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Yes, I believe in mixed marriages. I have bi-racial children in a small southern town and my kids are well adjusted. They have lots of friends, and have very seldom faced any kind of racism. You just have to teach your kids that there are some pretty ignorant people in this world. And that there self worth does not come from what other people think, it comes from your values, morals, and accomplishments.
2006-07-06 12:19:07
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answered by Anonymous
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