How can I keep my husband who likes to look to other women?

Answer 1

as long as he just looks God did give him eyes if he loves you dont have to worry

Answer 2

Men are attracted to many women at the same time. That is actually normal. What you should investigate, however, is the kind of relationship that you already have with him. I am a married man and I look at all atttractive women of the world, but I do make an intentionall choice to be faithfull, although I have received many sexual offers throughout the years and continuing.
Women out there do not make it easy for a man to not look since they dress like sluts. I recommend that you analize your present relationship with and evaluate whether you are meeting each other's needs. We are all human and continue to be. Let me say that a marital relationship is about the couple and NOT about the children. If the couple does not get along, the children will suffer. Both partners must always take care of their appearance (weight and hygene) and their intellectual standing toward each other. Make no mistake about, sex does make the worl go around in a marriage. If your sexual relationship is not good, you are already in trouble. No one likes to have sex with an unattractive partner. Don't ask "do I look fat"? If you have to ask, then you ARE.
The key is to do the things that you used to do at first. Romance each other. Offering your best just as you did at first is key. Don't let your relationship go sour. Live an intentional life. What do you have that the chic at whom he stares does not have? After all, he married you, didn't he? I firmly believe that if you take care of your part of the marriage, he will be more than inspired to take of his. Take time to romance and talk about life. Go out, take a cruise, get some counseling if you must--there is no shame in it. A counselor is an expert who can educate you and give you valuable information that you need. An educated lover is the best lover to have. I rock my wife's world because I know how. I read and make the effort to inspire her to love me back.
Get to it!
Mr. M on looking at other women.

Answer 3

The age old question. Guys are going to look. Hey I look at other men and enjoy the view. I had this conversation with my boyfriend several weeks ago. I told him I do not care if he looks but under the following condition ;He is not obvious about it. I even point out pretty girls to him (and he gets all shy and embarrassed when I do that to him).

I am very confident in myself. I know that at the end of the day, he is coming home with me. The only thing that I demand of him is respect.

Don't let his looking make you feel like you need to drop 50 pounds and become a fashion model. If this type of thinking worked, you would not hear of beautiful celebrities being cheated on. Be you and no one else!

Answer 4

Looking and pursuing is two totally different things. First things first, if he's disrespecting you...looking at other women while you two are together, you need to address that QUICKLY. People do what they can get away with and that includes your husband. Second, talk with him about it. You guys are married. Y'all stood before God and pronounced, "...til death do us part". If you and he really meant that, then there should be no problem/situation that can't be handled. I'm sure it will work out. The key to the solution may be the woman in the mirror...maybe. Good luck

Answer 5

Encourage him - use it as part of your sex life. When you are with him, say things like, "I saw you staring at that woman today - she was hot, wasn't she? What would you do to her?"

Then fulfill his fantasies - have some fun with it.

I've said this one a few times here and I'll tell you about it too.

Go to a bar, dress up in your hottest, most sexiest outfit ever imaginable. Sit at the bar, let all the men around drool and flirt with you - go with it. But, let your husband watch from the corner. Later, give him a little signal - let him walk up to you, whisper in your ear, then just get up and leave together. The looks you will get from others will amuse you - and they might bother him as well. But in any case, put a spin on it, make it a fantasy - then give him oral pleasure in the parking lot.

Answer 6

Well... i don't know what you mean by look to other women. If you mean he have sex with other women, then you have a problem with your marriage, but if you mean that he looks at them when they pass by, then he dosen't respects you. First you must tell him you don't like it and if he dosen't stop, do unto others what they do unto you and see how he likes it. Men are dogs. Maybe he marry to young and don't realize that he is now a marry man and his days of playing around are over. You need to wake him up to the real world. Not to rattle your bubble but maybe you don,t look the same and you're not dressing up like you use to and letting yourself go. Sometimes love needs a sexy night out to hold the attendion of your partner. I know....I know.
If he loves you, it shouldn't matter what you look like, but in the real world that's full of dogs, what more can i say. Love is hard and Love takes time to grow and understand. good luck

Answer 7

Girl, all men look at other women. There is nothing you can really do. You can mention it to him, you don't like when you look at other women. Be confident and take pride in your self. Always know other men are looking at you too,and he knows it. Men have to do something to with their eyes other than watching other men looking at their women.I won't worry about it. Remember he looked at you too and now your together today.Just make sure he he always respect you and the relationship. Good luck, God bless you.

Answer 8

As long all he's doing is looking, it's harmless. You basically have two possible ways to deal with it: make it clear to him that it really upsets you, and that if he loves you and dioesn't want to hurt your feelings he needs to stop doing it (at least while he's around you). Or else you need to relax, accept that he like to look but he isn't going to leave you, and start pointing out cute girls to him. While you're at it I'd suggest very obviously scoping out hot guys in front of him, just so he understands that this is a 2-way deal.

Answer 9

start looking at women too.....a man has a fantacy about 2 women you all know that!but if a man is left by his women for another women,thats a pride thing .dont cross that boundary and let it happen of course if you are into that sort of thing!but if you flirt with women it takes all the fun he gets out of you when he does it!

Answer 10

It is fine to look, just don't touch (well with out permission at least) Women are like Art to men... as long as he feels it is OK not to become an artist... If you want to keep him don't make him feel bad him with insecurities let him look...

Answer 11

Yeah! Why would you want to keep him???

My girlfriend once told me that she is amazed at how she has never ever seen me looking at any other women.

(that third eye transplant on the back of my head was the best money I ever spent)