Me and my boyfriend have a honest relationship. We talk about everything and we are very straight forward. He told me before that this girl at work has a crush on him and she is very attractive which she is. Then other the day he tells me she was grabbing on his crotch. I asked him what did he do he said nothing. I asked y didnt he do anything he said because she can grab all she wants to but it doesn't mean she is going to get whats inside of his pants. So then he told i shouldn't be upset because he loves me and would never cheat on me which he has never done. I mean i guess he is right and he told me about it when he didn't have 2.
2006-07-06 11:55:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I myself would confront the *****. You may lose your man over this, but if you do then it's meant to be that way. Stop asking him to do something, as a women you need to take action. Trust me, he would.
2006-07-06 12:13:30 · answer #1 · answered by sag79 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think its really a reason to leave him. But you should let him know it makes you uneasy to have girls at work hitting on him and he makes no effort to stop it.
Ask him how he would feel if you had guys grabbing your butt and flirting with you and you just let them do it and flirted back.
Also grabbing a guys crotch is a pretty bold move with no incentives to do so. Maybe he has been flirting more then he admits for a girl to do something like that.
2006-07-06 18:59:13 · answer #2 · answered by Jen11979 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were trying to get him a erotic massage in vegas with the hand job.. Don’t send him mix signals. If your relationship is stale try swinging or something more adventurous...
2006-07-06 19:19:45 · answer #3 · answered by Tequila Gypsy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he shouldve done something, this is really about trust, if you trust him that he wont cheat then stay, if you have your doubts try to talk to him about how you feel and if he still does nothing when stuff like that happens (which shouldnt be happening in the first place. ) then leave
2006-07-06 19:03:15 · answer #4 · answered by estefany v 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because he tells you about it doesn't make it right! Tell him, if he respects you and your relationship, he should tell this "woman" she needs to stop trying to grab his "goodies".
2006-07-06 18:59:36 · answer #5 · answered by carolscreation 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think u should leave him over this. BUT u should make it clear that u r NOT cool with that. Then, if he continues to do this kind of stuff, kick him to the curb.
2006-07-06 18:59:55 · answer #6 · answered by luckyirishgirl2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and tell him the way u feel about it.
2006-07-06 19:22:47 · answer #7 · answered by NiceGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU are not married. Leave the relationship!
2006-07-06 18:57:47 · answer #8 · answered by Susanne R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to tell him to tell her that he is in a good relationship and and to respect you
2006-07-06 19:08:04 · answer #9 · answered by cowboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it bothers you tell him to tell her to cut it out he could also be trying to make you jealous or testing you
2006-07-06 18:58:34 · answer #10 · answered by jesus on the dashboard 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋