having sex with someone you know you shouldn't be fantasizing about (neighbour, friends husband/wife, etc) while ...uhm... by yourself? How (ab)normal is it?
2006-07-06 11:51:35 · 14 answers · asked by sahm2boys 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Perfectly normal....I dont think there ever was a human being who wasnt curious about someone they knew they really cant be with.
Years ago, I lived next door to this lady who had the most phenomenal pair of legs I've ever seen. She knew that whenever she was outside I would be sneaking peeks. One day, she caught me looking and waved for me to come over, I did and she said that she thought it was nice that someone noticed something about her a little lower then her boobs. I was embarresed but after that, whenever she came outside, she had the shortest shorts or bikini bottoms on that she could legally get away with.
So dont worry about it. I would bet that if that other person knew that you wer fantasizing about them they would be secretly happy about it.
2006-07-06 11:59:06 · answer #1 · answered by werk2much2000 4 · 5⤊ 1⤋
It is very normal to fantasize about that unobtainable person. If someone tells you that it is abnormal, they are either in denial or afraid to admit it. Fantasizing about another person other than your significant other is a fact of life. Just like guys constantly looking at other women.
2006-07-06 12:07:01 · answer #2 · answered by lpsl_84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's a sexual fable, who cares? it fairly is your organization. i'm specific it does not make you a risk to society or something. as properly, what you do on your intercourse existence is high quality as long as your companion(s) are comfortable with it too. So, if a woman has no difficulty with being a submissive, I see no difficulty along with her being a submissive, nor with you fantasizing approximately it.
2016-12-08 16:33:27 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ohh Geezz. your normal if you are doing this.. everyone has a moment in their lives where they WONDER.. but that doesn't mean they act on it.. they are just curious as to what it would be like to be that different person who they don't think they are.. and they probably aren't.. but they still wonder every now and then.. the "what if's"..
It will pass.....but just like men WILL look and not act, women will THINK but not act..
I say enjoy your fantasy world, but don't let it consume you.
2006-07-06 11:59:22 · answer #4 · answered by Craptacular Wonderment 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A Little Fantasy never hurt anyone. Its the one time you can truely be or do whatever you want without repercussions
2006-07-06 11:57:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its normal. In fact a rich fantasy life is healthy.
2006-07-06 11:55:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has, and will till they die. To be human is to WANT, to DESIRE, to NEED. To denie that would denie what we are. It could be your 1st grade teacher, it could be the girl next door, it could even be the UPS man! But why lie, we all do.
2006-07-06 11:59:34 · answer #7 · answered by mrjaymcginnis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are normal sex is a normal part of life some just crave it more than others.
2006-07-06 19:01:12 · answer #8 · answered by gracie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think is abnormal. i think all people fantasize at one point or another about someone
2006-07-06 11:54:09 · answer #9 · answered by estefany v 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think people fantasize all the time, i know i do!
2006-07-06 11:55:38 · answer #10 · answered by cynthia_armymom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋