We have a mixed family and I do not want to leave because of his children and ours together. We have major problem and he does not seem to care.
2006-07-06 11:43:39 · 7 answers · asked by christina6marie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Talk about it now, not later.
It could be as simple as communication or attention.
But if there is really no love then it is time to move on and if he won't listen move sooner rather than later. Sometimes they don't want to listen until it's too late or almost too late. If he is ignoring you then you have a real problem. Start by packing slowly and get a lawyer. Put some money to the side for your saving or expenses- but not in a bank- preferably at a place where you can truly trust somone not to tell or steal from you- like a family member. Make copies off all the assets you have that are on paper. Find out what you or he has in saving, bonds, banks, everything.... GET A LAWYER and get some good advice. Don't tell him what you are doing just do it and get out before he takes up any more of your time. You are a mother and wife and woman and if he is disrespecting any of these things then he doesn't deserve you. No matter how great his kids are or his family...
2006-07-06 11:51:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be completely honest & point blank. If u don't, you'll give the person the idea that there's still a shot at working things out, & that's not fair to them. You'll probably hurt their feelings, but the less things get dragged out, the better.
As for the kids, they will be hurt. But kids seem to bounce back from this kind of stuff better than adults do. And trust me, living with 2 parents that are having a lot of problems can be just as stressful as having their parents split up. They know more than u think they do.
2006-07-06 18:48:07 · answer #2 · answered by luckyirishgirl2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't care because you are not giving him a reason to. If he his too lazy to take the initiative and try to fix it, you are going to have to. You have to meet your needs as well as your childrens. If you wait too long to do something it will only be that much worse.
2006-07-06 18:49:48 · answer #3 · answered by Lord Jake 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with them. Putting it off won't help matters at all. It will be hard to do but you will feel so much better afterwards.Life is too short to be miserable. Besides the kids know your not happy.
2006-07-06 19:08:24 · answer #4 · answered by puzzlefanatic2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to that person and see where the problem is. If you aren't in love with that person and he doesn't seem to care then you have to make yourself and your situation better. LEAVE!!!!!!!!!!! or work it out.
2006-07-06 18:49:35 · answer #5 · answered by Cuddles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i advise u do not marry a man have children u must marry someone free and give all his time to u
i am free all the time lol
2006-07-06 18:51:50 · answer #6 · answered by micho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you tell them and expalin why
2006-07-06 18:56:23 · answer #7 · answered by ashleybaby147 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋