2006-07-06 11:11:52 · 37 answers · asked by shortydee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sorry to hear that. Well, if you believe that you life feel vague and you need to feel comfort, then yeah, it time to rejoice that new person in your life. I know that your widow will understand about that. i am sure he want you happy and move on to an better life. So It time to learn about what matter most. beside no one can replace your husband, but someone new can mend your heart with new inspiration. Sometimes God have plans for you and getting marry is one of them. i wish you good luck and hope you feel happy with Mr. New Man.
2006-07-06 11:25:28 · answer #1 · answered by zhunt312002 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You do not say if you are in a realationship or not. Yes enough time has passed but no you do not have to get married if you are not ready. Do not settle just for the sake of not being alone. Are you missing companionship or sex? Both are available without having to get married. You could take in a room mate so the house is not as empty (I am concidering that myself) by that I mean room mate not bed mate. When the right person crosses your path go for it until then don't settle!
2006-07-18 03:33:00 · answer #2 · answered by Ellie P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that whenever YOU are ready to get married again would be the right time. It is your life. As far as being alone all the time. What is stopping you from getting out among people? You can join a gym, join a church, take college classes in something you're interested in. Take up a new sport or hobby, volunteer in your community. The only person who is keeping you from not being alone is yourself. Like my grandmother used to say...life is what YOU make it.
2006-07-18 06:35:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart,
I am right there with you.....My husband died four years ago and the loneliness about killed me as well. You will find the right one I promise. I found mine. He was my childhood friend and one day he came knocking on my door last September we got married March of this year.
God knows when you are ready and He knows what is best for you. Wait on Daddy to bring him too you. You may already have him just give it time and DON"T feel guilty for loving again.
2006-07-20 09:15:36 · answer #4 · answered by Been There Done That 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its time to move on with your life I am sure your husband wouldnt want you to be miserable and like to see you leading a happy life. You dont really have to get married again untul you feel its the right time-get to know the person first, if they feel the same get hitched.
2006-07-18 07:52:29 · answer #5 · answered by Little Minx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband died almost 12 years ago and I only went out with somebody one time. It didn't work so I really don't know if I care anymore.
I assume you will know if someone is right for you to be with.
2006-07-18 17:33:43 · answer #6 · answered by pixles 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey,if you feel comfortable with the idea of remarriage then do it! I myself am fairly recently widowed(nov.12,2005). I spent 10 years with the same man,had two beautiful kids with him,then we finally decided to get married last Feb.. We were only married for 9 months before he shot himself with a rifle. I didn't want to be alone either. Unexpectedly,I met a man who is truely wonderful to me and my children, in Jan.,by Feb. we began dating and we are still together and just as happy as ever. We're getting married in a few months and I couldn't be happier. My kids are happy about it too! It's your life,live it your way! God Bless!
2006-07-06 13:04:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should get married again. If you feel it is time then do it. No one wants to alone. Good luck.
2006-07-20 10:39:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best loving tribute you can do for your late husband is to be able to love again. Find the next love of your life and be happy!
2006-07-06 18:30:31 · answer #9 · answered by iam1funnychick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should get married because you are lonely. Make sure that the person you choose is who you want to spend the rest of your life with.
Date and look around. don't rush into something because you are lonely.
2006-07-06 11:17:15 · answer #10 · answered by retta 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋