I am emotionaly and physically attracted to my boyfriend, yet whenever i get turned on, it will go away in a few minutes. Like, we will be making out and I will be turned on, then 3 seconds later it will go away.. then 5 minutes later I will get turned on again. Its like a roller coaster.. It doesn't happen all the time, but some. Does this happen to everyone.. and I have troulbe staying in "the mood" I can never get into a hardcore make out session or even more, I need to talk or say something, or laugh about something, not because I find it awkward, just because I get kind of bored if its just kissing and foreplay
2006-07-06 10:43:42 · 3 answers · asked by Katrina G 3 in Health ➔ Women's Health
If you are having trouble staying the the mood, this may be because you are not enjoying the sexual experience. If you are getting bored with Kissing and Foreplay, try moving on to something you are interested in. Don't move any faster than you feel comfortable with, and discuss this with your partner as well. Explore yourself through masturbation so that you know what pleases you and you can show your partner how to please you as well. You can learn from each other. If there is something you are not enjoying, or something you would like to be enjoying, mention it to your partner and work together to make it better. If you feel the urge to laugh or talk, laugh..or talk. There is nothing wrong with verbalizing or laughing during intimacy or sexual encounters. Don't worry about taking yourself too seriously, enjoy your sexuality.
2006-07-06 10:52:10 · answer #1 · answered by pjbottom_rebellion 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes a couple just doesn't "click". Try doing things that will be more romantic kiss and then touch each other or something. Maybe your body just doesn't know what's coming? It generally takes women longer to get in the mood than men. Also make sure you guy is kissing with you not just Kissing you. I think you know what I mean. If you are both kissing each other it is much nicer and steamier than if he is just laying his tongue all over your lips. I kissed a boy one time and it felt like kissing a baby! BLah, what a turn-off! I'm not saying he kisses bad, but maybe he's not kissing the right way for YOU. Expirement with different kissing methods, french kiss, small kisses, and just have fun. Surely you will get your fire....
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2006-07-06 18:21:43 · answer #2 · answered by Troopers_Gurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe it is because you just get bored and need to change it up a little.
2006-07-06 17:49:18 · answer #3 · answered by dui 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋