I date a black boy, I realy likr him. But my mom and dad said if i ever date a black boy ill be kicked out the house. What should i do.
I realt like him, If that matter.
2006-07-06 10:35:05 · 6 answers · asked by Rae Rae 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Speak to yr parents and ask them whats the reason of it....And try to make them understand yr feeling and thinking about him...I am sure you will find a way for it ...
2006-07-06 10:42:26 · answer #1 · answered by XXX 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mom seems to have a problem with you dating a black guy. Depending on the circumstances, you may have no ground to stand on. I don't know what her reasoning is, but it could be that her idea of black guys is based on stereotypes. Sadly enough your mother doesn't sound like she's a very level headed person if she bases who you can date on race. In any case, you need to evaluate your situation. If you are under 18, you need a place to live. If you are over 18, maybe you could talk it out and find out why she feels that way and maybe come to a compromise of some sort. If not, you may have to wait until you are prepared to move out if she kicks you out. It depends on the depth of your situation.
2006-07-06 17:42:31 · answer #2 · answered by Chiky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if there is any reason in the world that your mom will kick you out it means that she does not deserve you.
take the initiative.
go to them tell them that you are leaving in a week because you have a black bf. and since you understand how they feel and you do not want to upset them you and bf are moving together and getting married.
don't worry they will beg you to stay.
2006-07-06 17:49:59 · answer #3 · answered by jb1220jb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what that's like. Try talking to your parents. See if they'll tell you the reason. And if not, then you might wana do what they say for now. Unless you have somewhere else to live.
2006-07-06 17:46:49 · answer #4 · answered by BlueSpider 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart. Your parents will get over it. But, first make sure that your attraction to the boy isn't based on the fact that you "can't have him" (according to your parents).
2006-07-06 17:49:03 · answer #5 · answered by kysark2003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
color should not matter! if u like him tell him that problem and if he likes u so much he would under stand just dont break ^ w/ him 4 that i would say f**k my parents if i am happy they should be to
2006-07-06 18:10:56 · answer #6 · answered by rkk_24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋