2006-07-06 10:26:10 · 10 answers · asked by Hisoka 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Never it might break their hearts.
2006-07-17 00:54:55 · answer #1 · answered by sarell 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you'd be a lot happier interior your self residing loose and chuffed as you could be. besides, it type of sounds like your relatives is in straightforward words one among those households that is merely not that close - so who's acquainted with, if it wasnt this, it would want to nicely be some thing else that drives a wedge. do not enable their dangle up be yours - it really is BS. You should sense free and performance human beings round you that love you for who you're interior. So youre interested in ladies persons, so what? it really is compared to youre lights toddlers on hearth and sucking the marrow out of their bones to take up their powers. there'll continually be self richeous gay-haters - and also you wont be the in straightforward words one whos father and mom pick to act in such techniques, regrettably. Wait til youre in college and tell them you've a mind tumor and also you in straightforward words have 6 months to stay. After the initial wonder and grief, then tell them youre in straightforward words gay. Hugs and robust success - be your self and sense free!!!
2016-11-06 00:12:50 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you have a support system in place ... or if you are a teen and live w/ your parents - that you feel safe & secure to tell them. It remains a big step for most people to take. My family is a case study of genetics - several members are gay or lesbian. I chose to be open with my family - and insist - that my partners be included in family events. I laid it out this way - you can either be a part of my life & we enjoy open communication --even if you dont fully understand.. or we can waste our lives judging each other.
2006-07-06 10:42:59 · answer #3 · answered by MARC W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't really matter but don't tell them on a good day or a really bad day either.Bring it up during dinner or sit them down and talk to them say something like.. " mom, dad I need to tell you something that i think you deserve to know about me.I'm not sure how you are going to take this but please try not to be mad.I'm a lesbian(or gay your preference).I know this is a big deal but please try to understand.I didn't chose to be this way." and what ever else you feel is necessary to tell them.If they ask you Q's about make sure you don't yell or say it in a defensive way.Answer it truthfully.If they freak out understand that to them it's hard to hear that there "precious" daughter/son is a lesbian/gay. Try not to make it to hard on them and try to understand their feelings. Everything should be fine after they get use to the fact.
2006-07-18 18:59:12 · answer #4 · answered by Angelina T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whenever you feel comfortable. You have to do it when its right for you. There is no right or wrong time and it all depends on what your parents are like. Is it best to sit them down and talk - or just to say it? They will either like it or not - other than times when they are thinking of other things - the time element wont make that much difference. I do think you should tell them before they meet your partner!!
2006-07-06 10:32:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell them sooner than later. Waiting to tell them is not going to change the way they will react. They are your family and your family will love you regardless. They may overreact at first because they won't know what to say. My 17 yr old daughter, who lives with her mom in Arizona, came to see me two summers ago when she was 15 and told me she thought she was gay. I asked her if she was happy and told her she had my support. I told her if she needs someone to talk to to call me and I would always listen. Family is blood thick. Being gay doesn't change that. you will always be their little girl. Good Luck.
2006-07-06 10:40:06 · answer #6 · answered by Mike B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never a right time.. Just have confidence that they'll understand... Analyze and assume that it'll go fine.. don't worry i believe in you.. or whoever you're asking the question for..
2006-07-06 10:34:34 · answer #7 · answered by Stevenson J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you bring your lover home to meet them
2006-07-06 10:29:25 · answer #8 · answered by babygirlmysterious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i would be upfront with them break it to them slowly
2006-07-20 03:33:52 · answer #9 · answered by joey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you;re ready
2006-07-20 07:20:56 · answer #10 · answered by Kalahari_Surfer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋