2006-07-06 10:24:38 · 18 answers · asked by xoxosweethart 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Usually it is in the way you are percieved by guys...Do you act overly flirty, make sexual remarks, or make a habit of sleeping with guys you haven't been dating? Things like that will make guys think you are the type of girl that doesn't mind being used for sex.
2006-07-06 10:31:21 · answer #1 · answered by sun kissed 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its simple the way you introduce your self some guy see it like an opening to get you in bed. You might be a very nice girl and maybe unintentionally you flirt or send wrong signal that to you might seem harmless but to us guy might be an invitation to some thing else. try not to be to sweet or gullible remember that you have the power your the woman and in the end you have the last word so don't keep your mouth close say something.
by the way I'm straight i just don't like guy thinking that girls are just to have sex with that all lol.
2006-07-06 10:40:27 · answer #2 · answered by jtlee522 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a tough question because I don't know how you act on a date or, for that matter, what you did to get asked out.
Now, depending on where you meet these guys and how you present yourself, there could be misunderstandings.
Do you flaunt your body?
Wear sexy clothes, lots of make-up?
Do you make a lot of eye contact with the guy, smile and touch him?
All these things could be signals that say "I'm available, sexually".
So do some self-analysis and try to figure out if you are giving them clues to the kind of girl you ARE or the kind of girl you WANT to be.
2006-07-06 10:41:50 · answer #3 · answered by Bakerman55 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is more than one answer to that question. I had that problem when i was a teen and i found that it came down to 3 things.
1) it was me! I was beautiful, sexy, and full of life. Men loved the fact that i was sexy and confident, they loved the way i was (and still am). I liked to flirt, i liked to be the center of attention. I smiled and laughed a lot. I was a tease and didnt even know it!
2) Young men think about sex all the time and dont know how to controll those feelings. Young men think that if a girl likes them that means she wants to sleep with him. They have not yet figured out that there is more to relationships that that.
3) DUH! they are men! if you cant eat it and you dont undrstand it then you f@$k it! (if you cant do that then kill it)
2006-07-06 10:37:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, probably because you were easy at first. If girls give sex out real early in the relationship, guys are going to expect it to stay just as easy. So, maybe try to not screw so many guys. ;)
2006-07-06 10:35:11 · answer #5 · answered by inaccord18 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This question does not make sense if you are getting marriage proposals also.
To answer your question:
I have found myself in these situations before:
You're nuts!
The guys are embarrassed to be around you in public -- but if you are giving we are taking.
2006-07-06 10:33:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has to have something to do with the way you carry yourself. You must be a little freaky or something along those lines and somebody you have been with has been talking about you and the way you are
2006-07-06 11:21:00 · answer #7 · answered by Wendy B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it could be the clothes that you are wareing some boys get the idea that the way girls r women dress gives them an invetatin so try to stop what you doing it could also be your reputation
2006-07-06 10:31:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe because thats what your flaunting around...
learn to display the qualities that you want the guys to appreciate in an attractive manner.
and how to do that, well, you didn't ask.
-Mr. Amazing
2006-07-06 10:36:39 · answer #9 · answered by DavidDucati 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you might just be asking them with your body lanugage and all but besides that.... there guys that is what they live for.
2006-07-06 10:30:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋