Tell him that your other band is your first priority, but you will sit in with his band if the rehearsals are different days. If there is a conflict like both bands have a gig the same day and you can only make one, remind him that you said that your other band is your #1 priority.
Now, it may turn out that you like the boyfriend's band better, in which case you can tell your other band the same thing.
2006-07-06 10:06:43
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answered by Besmirched Tea 5
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Well you should give a lot of thought of which band you want to be with according to the music you'll be able to play in them and the people in the band and how you will get along with them if you work together as a team. At the end youll come up with your own answer :): wish u the best!
2006-07-06 17:08:48
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answered by cokittedelarge 2
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Tell him you would like to, but you are already committed to another group. If something changes you would give him a call. Get his number and also see if you could make it work out where you are in two bands. You may find that the one he's in has the most potential to become famious. Who knows. Keep your options open.
2006-07-06 17:08:34
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answered by Anonymous
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If you have time to do both, then go for it. If you don't, then be honest. Tell him you do not have time for both. In the long run, honesty will always help. Also, if at some point in the future, you want to join his band, there will not be any hard feelings (because you told the truth).
2006-07-06 17:07:11
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answered by Vic 3
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are there any of your friends that are in the band that you have? if not why dont you ask ther opinion or if you really like this guy join in his band and tell your band why that way you can smooth things over.
2006-07-06 17:07:51
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answered by arielcowgirl_2010 4
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if he haves a good band then be his drummer but if he does not have a very good band then don't be his drummer.
2006-07-06 17:09:21
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answered by wyanehaltcher 2
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Tell him " I'm really sorry but I already have a band "
2006-07-06 17:07:07
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answered by kmsoccergurl95 3
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It depends, are you a good "drummer"
2006-07-06 17:06:37
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answered by Aim2Plz 1
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does he want you because your good or because he wants in your pants or both?
I think the why is jsut as important the what
2006-07-06 17:07:43
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answered by DWW in Niagara 3
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Be true to him and tell him this. Dont be afraid.
2006-07-06 17:06:55
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answered by Jeny B 1
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