Ok by this I mean... females say they have a problem ie the car don't work...
Their girlie mates hug and give sympathy etc , sit there and listen... but the car is still broke...
A gay would get a tool kit, get her to help, fix the car, make her watch so she sees how to fix it, car owrking, next time she can fix it...
Thats the crux of it...
Ie teen girl, hates self, balemic, cuts self etc...
counceller listens yak yak Uterly point less.
Joey here would take her down beauty r Us, sort the hair, loose the glasses, and the braces. Get laser eye surgery so no more contacts, fix the allergy., manicure, pedicure, maybe palstic surgery... get her looking buff. Then get clothing coaches that will work with her personality to get her sexuy confident clothes... ie rock chick, surfer babe, biker chick, hip hop chick, goth, trendy, etc.
Prob sexy uniforms too... nurse cheerleader etc...
Pole dance lessons, exotic dancer lessons, how to charm boys lessons
2006-07-06 10:03:08 · 12 answers · asked by Joey 4 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Lots of girlie tricks, coach and go through role play so she can get guys... Then she gets self worth where if guys want her she must be hot. Likewise nhelp a career... if can get good job must be smart. get it all sorted then leave her to grow into her own form ahving sorted the foundation...
Likewise guys... dump the couch and emply a Old Zorro, katate kid Mr miyaki like coach/mentor to teach him how to fight, be asserive, get him fit strong and confidentinto fight he can prove him self, how to pull girls, develop his identity, help dressing... as said working with a personality, help find a career etc
ie sort the problem.
If something like autisim/asbergers medicate or sort that...
2006-07-06 10:06:48 · update #1
Lots of girlie tricks, coach and go through role play so she can get guys... Then she gets self worth where if guys want her she must be hot. Likewise nhelp a career... if can get good job must be smart. get it all sorted then leave her to grow into her own form ahving sorted the foundation...
Likewise guys... dump the couch and emply a Old Zorro, katate kid Mr miyaki like coach/mentor to teach him how to fight, be asserive, get him fit strong and confidentinto fight he can prove him self, how to pull girls, develop his identity, help dressing... as said working with a personality, help find a career etc
ie sort the problem.
If something like autisim/asbergers medicate or sort that...
2006-07-06 10:08:26 · update #2
Lots of girlie tricks, coach and go through role play so she can get guys... Then she gets self worth where if guys want her she must be hot. Likewise nhelp a career... if can get good job must be smart. get it all sorted then leave her to grow into her own form ahving sorted the foundation...
Likewise guys... dump the couch and emply a Old Zorro, katate kid Mr miyaki like coach/mentor to teach him how to fight, be asserive, get him fit strong and confidentinto fight he can prove him self, how to pull girls, develop his identity, help dressing... as said working with a personality, help find a career etc
ie sort the problem.
If something like autisim/asbergers medicate or sort that...
2006-07-06 10:08:33 · update #3
OPPS on the repetition cut and paste went wrong
2006-07-06 10:09:15 · update #4
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Ok I can speak english but rush typed it, looking down not at the screen and then tried to copy and it went bad. doing mutliple versions
What its basically saying is get rid of councilling and replace it with life coaching, fixing the underlying problems...
The way guys tend to help, not sit on a couch whilst someone mentions their problems ie person talks and counciller listens...
If person is depressed as cant pull, get them looking good and teach them to pull.
If lacking confidence combat lessons and assertiveness lessons... That clearer?
2006-07-06 10:21:31 · update #5
And that is really pushing the problem fixing ie put a girl on pole dance lessons and the guy through army type training to strenghten him up.
Skydiving etc
2006-07-06 10:22:54 · update #6
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Practical help is surely better?
Ie makeover, coaching in seduction, asertiveness teraining and martial arts lessons, Pole dancing lessons etc
2006-07-11 12:00:07 · update #7
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LETS MAKE THIS REAL SIMPLE....
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COUNCILLING USLESS AS NOT PROBLEM SOLVING ACTION
Thats the question
2006-07-15 11:19:37 · update #8
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Dallas THink I pointed out below... the bit with a gay would get a tool kit was a typo.
It was meant to be guy get a tool kit...
Nothing more then that.
Ie come up with a practical solution not go there there and listen
2006-07-17 06:56:04 · update #9
I think you misunderstand, there's a difference between counselling and sympathy. Counselling is not just about listening and agreeing 'yeah, isn't it terrible'.
Plus there are different types of counselling, all demand some degree of input from the client, not just a long list of moans and grumbles. Counselling is a tool to develop insight and self awareness to deal with emotional problems, once those are understood you can also learn practical skills.
You are saying you can either have one or the other; and that girls have emotions and boys have practical skills; you can have one or the other. Its just garbage.
2006-07-06 10:10:01 · answer #1 · answered by sarah c 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that, what you are saying, is that guys are more practical.
They think, what's the problem, right, I need to do this or that, to fix it.
Women get all emotional about a problem, they have to be comforted first, then they will ask some guy what to do to fix it. Probably having blamed him for it going wrong in the first place.
I do'nt think that counselling is any use at all. How are you gonna learn to be independent and fix things for yourself if you are always running for help. I think that counsellors enjoy other peoples problems, they like talking about them, they like the power buzz it gives them by feeling superior. Who are these people anyway? that they think that they can always fix other peoples problems. A little arrogant, I think. Very female.
2006-07-17 13:19:54 · answer #2 · answered by Veritas 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like the others I find this very, very boring and not a little weird, however it's nice to see Joey championing the Gay cause, "A gay would get a tool kit..."
Cute!
2006-07-17 02:29:30 · answer #3 · answered by dallas s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are worried about something? Maybe your friend has to go through some old things before she/he can begin to get to grips with the things that make us feel good? Maybe you feel you can't do enough to help, or maybe you have had a tough time yourself. Talking things through can't do much harm, maybe hiding things away can?
2006-07-06 17:10:25 · answer #4 · answered by silentium aqualis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don`t Write a BOOK next time just ask a question
I got bored and fell to sleep reading it
So am saying this without completingreading.
2006-07-14 05:14:01 · answer #5 · answered by itsa o 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Far too long and boring a question for me.
Sit down with a counsellor and talk about it.
2006-07-15 10:03:55 · answer #6 · answered by A G 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can be fixed on the outside all you want but it doesn't matter if the inside is still broken.
2006-07-19 02:34:47 · answer #7 · answered by fairy00006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've got as Porsche.
Its not an automatic.
2006-07-18 23:04:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
AHHHH HELLO COUNSELLORS GET PAID TO LISTEN TO PEOPLE WHINING ALL DAY LONG....!!!! WHO WOULD WASTE TIME SITTING LISTENING TO PEOPLES PROBLEM UNLESS YOU GET PAID!!! IF MY FRIENDS COMES TO ME FOR PROBLEM JUST TELL THEM TO GO TO COUNSELLOR !!! IF THEY HAVE CAR TROUBLE POINT TO MECHANIC!! SHEESH....END OF STORY!
2006-07-19 00:24:46 · answer #9 · answered by +++++ SPOOK ++++ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you need a counselor!
2006-07-18 23:54:01 · answer #10 · answered by valerie b 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋