I grew up in a culture of guys "letting me" bacause it wasnt gay.
How do you folks feel?
2006-07-06 09:53:18 · 23 answers · asked by eddie9551 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Ease up on me guys. Im married to a man. I got no doubts about myself. Was asking about the others whoi like to get done
2006-07-06 11:31:29 · update #1
I come from that same kind of culture, actually.
No.
Being gay is and emotional attraction and showing affection. If there's little to no reciprocation or affection shown, it's not gay. It's merely a male/male sex act
Sex between people of the same gender in circumstances like an all-girls school or a prison (and what's the difference, really) is not actually gay.
2006-07-06 10:36:28 · answer #1 · answered by blueowlboy 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If your eyes are closed, then you could be thinking about anyone and it really wouldn't matter who the person was working on you. Sex is 90% emotional. In many Latino cultures, men getting serviced by other men is very common, and as long as they are not reciprocating, then they are not labeled as gay. I have serviced quite a few men over the years that I definitely could not call gay. Men are just very sexual by nature. Being gay is about much more than just sex. Getting a blown by a guy every now and then does not make you gay--just smart!
2006-07-07 01:46:56 · answer #2 · answered by skidmark 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEWSFLASH: Straight men can have gay sex!
In Focus: However that doesn't make them gay. Letting someone do you (or doing someone), doesn't require sexual attraction (although that helps). Being Gay or Bi, for sure, does require same sex desires and attraction.
After University I helped out at a charity for sex workers (prostitutes). Many of the rent boys were straight - doing it for money, only. Trust me when I tell you that they had too much experience in worldly ways, not to know and be comfortable with their own sexual orientation.
Denial aint just a river in Africa, no, it's also being closeted from the truth.
2006-07-06 17:26:56 · answer #3 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That just makes them gay and selfish. It don't mater if you are pitching or catching you are still on the same team.
I love it how the guys who like getting a blown from a gay guy think they are still straight. LOL
2006-07-06 16:59:28 · answer #4 · answered by ♂ Randy W. ♂ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you are either gay and just not admiiting it or you are bi. Nothing wrong with that. Wish I could find a group of guys like that here in this small town in Texas.
2006-07-06 17:21:24 · answer #5 · answered by texasboy0069 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am happy to say that I took great pleasure in that same phenomena when I was young.
I do not think that it makes them gay personally, and I'm glad they were open enough to have me s**k their d**ks.
Regards,
Reyn
2006-07-06 22:05:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, yeah. If you engage in sexual activity with someone of the same sex you're gay.
2006-07-06 16:59:11 · answer #7 · answered by Cyn90 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gimmie an G, Gimmie an A, Gimmie an Y...Wuts that spell? GAY, GAY, GAY!!!!
2006-07-06 17:22:52 · answer #8 · answered by BooSha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a guy touching another guy in a sexual way means gay to me
2006-07-06 17:31:09 · answer #9 · answered by orange_crush_05 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it feels good for you go ahead.
I would love it if a guy gave ME a ********--or even better a hot sexy girl................âº
Don't worry, if you want to do it and you know you are not gay--go ahead!
2006-07-06 16:59:53 · answer #10 · answered by Bedtime Story 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋