2006-07-06 09:52:44 · 16 answers · asked by Jessica 2 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
It can. Train him in your likes and dislikes.
Heck, train yourself in your likes and dislikes!
2006-07-06 09:56:39 · answer #1 · answered by jooker 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because there is no biological advantage to women having sex all the time, in terms of their increasing their chances of spreading their gene pool around. They can only have a child once a year, what's the point in them having sex all the time? Why should they want to have sex all the time?
Men, of course, find sex intensely pleasureable, always, because they can conceive five or ten children a day, given the opportunity for sex with five or ten different women. This is a rather basic point of evolutionary biology that counselors tend to overlook. Not entirely correct politically, I suppose.
2006-07-06 10:03:57 · answer #2 · answered by jkraus_1999 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It probably can be infinitely more pleasurable, but since most of us are human there is no known way for us to perceive or feel it. To explain a little more humans, along with the rest of the living organisms, are finite, therefor incapable of understanding something which can be infinite. Otherwise the word "infinit" would not exist in our language. Of course you might just be doing it wrong.
2006-07-11 05:33:05 · answer #3 · answered by lost 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is very pleasurable you just have to explore a little more and find out what u like. Or your messin with the wrong people
2006-07-06 10:02:10 · answer #4 · answered by a247hustle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you physically well? I have a sensitive stomach, and a lot of the time, I just don't physically feel like having sex. I don't have nearly as much of a sex drive as my boyfriend, and I agree, sometimes I just feel like I'm letting him have sex with me. You have to be in the mood. Learn what turns you on and do it. Lots of foreplay. That makes sex a lot more enjoyable for me. But, honestly, it's perfectly acceptable for a person not to like sex. I'm sure lots of people don't. I only really like it when I'm really in the mood, which is less often than not in the mood.
2006-07-06 10:09:03 · answer #5 · answered by Crzygrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, I would say you need a new partner, OR be able to ask for what you need. Do you know what you like that would make it pleasurable for you? I would say that is where to start. This is a question that you could ask your doctor too.
2006-07-06 09:58:28 · answer #6 · answered by Jeanette K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either you have a physical problem, a mental problem, or you're not doing it right (or having it done to you right).
some people have medical issues that don't allow them to enjoy it. Some people have psychological problems that don't allow them to enjoy it. If you have had different partners and still don't find it pleasurable, maybe talk to a doctor.
2006-07-06 09:59:50 · answer #7 · answered by MDPeterson42 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you just don't have the romantic feelings for the person you're doing it with and it seems more like a chore. or perhaps he's not doing it right and you're too shy to say anything to him (so it's going to stay that way). or (and hopefully this isn't the case), maybe it's a psychological block. what do you think of sex in general????
2006-07-06 09:59:09 · answer #8 · answered by vanessa w 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please clarify by yourself what do you mean by "more". Pleasurable or not pleasurable, it is totally dependent on the state of mind of one individual. If you think so, it would be a better advise to consult a psychiatrist.
Regards
2006-07-07 00:29:40 · answer #9 · answered by Prince 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know about you, but it is pleasurable to me!
2006-07-06 22:01:11 · answer #10 · answered by Modest intellect 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not doing it with the right people.
2006-07-06 09:54:36 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋