WE WERE IN A RELATIONSHIP FOR 5 MONTHS AND I BROKE UP WITH HIM 3 TIMES AND THEN CALLED HIM AND GOT HIM BACK THE LAST TIME WE BROKE UP IT WAS FOR OVER A MONTH AND I STARTED A NEW RELATIONSHIP, BUT NOW I CALLED HIM AND WE ARE KINNDA BACK TOGETHER BUT MY REAL BOY FRIEND DOES NOT KNOW.
2006-07-06 09:45:49 · 22 answers · asked by rnorfleetlopez 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Your intrigued by him. You are interested in what he has going on because he is still apart of your thoughts. So instead of letting it just stay with a thought, you will act on that thought by calling him to see what he is doing and one thing will lead to the next and the next, then next thing you know, you are getting back with him.
Until you let him go mentally he will always have a place in you.
2006-07-06 09:50:39 · answer #1 · answered by jman 2 · 4⤊ 2⤋
Tell you what.
Make a list of all the things that you truly like about this person. Not just 'he's hot' kind of crap, either. REAL things. And make a list of all the things that made you break up with him. Compare the two. And if you find that there are more reasons to be away from him than there are to be with him, try the next step: whenever you think you want to get back together with him, smack yourself in the face. Aversion therapy works!
2006-07-06 09:53:48 · answer #2 · answered by cr329 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because its easier to go with what you know then take a chance on someone new.
Just keep in mind there is a reason he keeps becoing your x boyfriend instead of you current.
I would also not start any new relationships until you get this one over and done with for good, not fair to the new person you are dating.
2006-07-06 09:51:08 · answer #3 · answered by Keljef99 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG, that sounds exactly like me. I was dating this guy for 5 years off and on, and we really love each other but the thing is we are so alike and don't really get along. On one of our break up's I met his cousin and started dating him off and on for 3 years. So now it's like I'm jumping back and forth between them. It's difficult for me, but they know about each other and well they basically hate each other. I'm just as confused as you are, I say ditch them both and start over, I am so ready for that, but it's hard to say and do because I now love both of them and don't want either to end. Maybe just take it as it comes it will sort it's self out, that's what I'm always telling myself.
2006-07-06 09:52:09 · answer #4 · answered by Janine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you keep running back sweetheart because you are only human! We as females tend to have a very soft spot for love!However ,to be human is to make mistakes and to keep making the same mistake over again is unnatural so just ask God for direction and strength to either make this relationship work or leave it alone!
2006-07-06 09:51:15 · answer #5 · answered by cocoa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your ex makes you feel good about yourself. But hey you arent really being fair to your real boyfriend, if I were you I would talk to him( your real bf) and see what ya'll should do. But for your real bf's sake dont keep this from him. Try to figure out what makes you keep running back and then maybe you can stop running back.
2006-07-06 09:50:02 · answer #6 · answered by KGW 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get your focus somewhere else like in you r new boyfriend. You are being very silly and he is going to keep using you until you until you put a stop to it. How do you think your new boyfriend is going to feel when he finds out about this. He will find out because you will slip up sooner or later.
2006-07-06 09:49:12 · answer #7 · answered by fashion_luvs_me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You keep going back because it is easier to be with someone familiar than it is to start a new relationship. You had a good reason for breaking up so remember it and let him go.
2006-07-06 09:49:23 · answer #8 · answered by berryjolynn 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you have to break up with somebody that many times in such a little while then you shouldnt be together unless its over dumb things then you need to stop fussin over the little things. IF thats not it then you need to stop callin him when your not together and find somebody you like who makes you happy cuz if your happy then you wont have to call him. SO break up with the new guy and give your old guy 1 more try and you have to make sure that its 1 (one) more try.
2006-07-06 09:52:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you call him if you all ready have another boy friend? Decide who you really love more, and who loves you more then dump the left over. You shouldn't keep two men, they will find out, so pick one quick, NOW, GO, FAST!!!!!
2006-07-06 09:51:33 · answer #10 · answered by Hayla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋