How Do you go about telling your mom ,,,,,,?

Question

That your a bisexual ?

Answer 1

Tough question, but why do you think you have to tell her. Eventually she will know. If she loves you like a mother should it won't matter anyway. Just live your life and be happy with yourself.

Answer 2

Well first of all you had better evaluate why you think you are Bi. And ask yourself is this the labler I want for the rest of my life. And then search your spirit. Maybe you should concentrate more on your Mothers feeling before you devastate her with your confession. I mean really, Bi people care very little about hurting people. It has never been political correct and it absolutely has a moral issue. Don't be Bi just because society claims its the in thing. After all, it could cost you your soul.
~Sweety

Answer 3

Why is it her business? Its not, really. And lets face it- you have a 50% better chance of getting laid on friday night than most straights, right?

Seriously- if this is a problem then sit down with her over coffee and discuss it like adults- and tell her the truth, and that is you don't know if you're gay or straight and still trying to figure it out.

I do have one small bit of important advice- until you figure this out, only date other people who are Bi. If you date a gay they'll get jealous- if you date a straight, they won't want to share.

Good Luck

Answer 4

hmm.. why would you want your mom to know something like that? Unless you are actually dating someone of the same sex and it becomes serious, why take the chance of starting drama?

and for the idiot who said "bisexual is a nice way of saying gay" thats the most ignorant comment ive ever heard.

Answer 5

sit her down and tell her you have something important
then say something like this:
"Mom, its hard for me to say this well you see not all people are the same...and im one of them...mom im bisexual i know your probably freaked out right now but its who i am and you cant change that."
I know she will understand you. All moms are the same. loving and caring!

hope i helped you
good luck!

Answer 6

Well hope that you have a good strong relationship and well can talk...if so then just tell her...if not then well take that chance any mother that would well turn away from her child with something like that then that is morally wrong...my mother said that about my sister and i told her that she was way out of wack...i mad her realize that a mothers love is supposed to be unconditional and not matter what basis. Just tell her. I am sure it will take a while for her to ease up to it but take your time..

Answer 7

Bisexual is a nice way to say gay. If you're gay, then honesty is the best policy. As a mother, I would not feel any better or worse about my child telling me that he or she is bisexual than I would about him or her saying that they are gay.

Answer 8

Just tell her your preference and tell her although you would appreciate her input it really isn't necessary if she tried to give you the whole spewl about you going to hell.
I am straight but I know I would have to accept my daughters decision should she say that to me. I hope that you break it to her gently and be sure to give her time to react. She might act out in a huff but simmer down eventually. Don't get into a heated argument about something that isn't anyone's fault.
Back off and give her some time to absorb it if she needs to but you might luck out and have a great mom!

Answer 9

"Yo, mom, hey...take a seat and chill a minute. I gots some hot news for ya. Oh, by the way, do you still have some Valium on your dresser? You look a little pale, mom. Maybe you should pop one now before I tell you the....the.... I got some info for ya, mom."

Answer 10

There is absolutely no reason to tell her this unless you are currently in a serious relationship with a person of the same sex. Mom's do not want any peek into their child's sex life.

Answer 11

take her out to dinner or lunch in a nice relaxing setting and when you know for sure that she's nice and relaxed tell her that there is something that you feel the need to share with her and tell her that it may come as a shock but you feel she needs to know make sure that you tell her that noone is in danger (just to kinda prepare her) and then say " mom i am bi-sexual and i need you to understand and be there for me this was not a choice that i made just to annoy you, but my real feelings and i felt you needed to know." or something along those lines RELAX, DON'T WORRY YOU'LL DO JUST FINE HOWEVER YOU DECIDE TO BREAK THE NEWS