ive been calld a slut b4 and i just want to know from a dudes point view what makes dudes think that?
2006-07-06 09:28:50 · 23 answers · asked by kole 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
ok...grr...what if u like know tha guy but aint tha good of friends with him and he comes out and says you are a slut.
2006-07-06 10:02:05 · update #1
A good portion of the time is because the female didn't want to sleep with him. they might have heard around town that the female sleeps around and that is not always true, now his pride is hurt because he was rejected.
2006-07-06 09:34:11 · answer #1 · answered by stubivious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've heard the line that girls that give in are wonderful and free thinkers but the girl that turns you down is a whore.
Guys sometimes just want to hurt you.
A sl-ut is someone who has sex with anyone that wants them to, without regard for whether or not having sex with that person is a good idea. In other words, a real sl-ut is not being treated in a respectful manner by her partners and she's putting up with it.
So she earns the disrespect of the boys.
But in high school, sometimes that label is attached to a girl because she made someone mad. Again, rejection is usually the reason.
I'd just ignore those labels. You know who you are and if it doesn't fit, it really is just their problem, unless you make it yours.
2006-07-06 09:35:05 · answer #2 · answered by Lori A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen up girl. I may only be 14. But when i look at a girl, they are a slut if they wear sluty cloths, or just date to many men. sluts usually date a guy, dump him, and then start over with someone new, all in the same day. DO NOT BECOME A SLUT!
2006-07-06 09:34:59 · answer #3 · answered by a14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are double standards applied to girls by boys (and other girls) that is unfair. Guys are allowed to be promiscuous while girls are expected to be loyal to a single male. This all relates back to our most primitive survival instincts. Not judging it right or wrong, just relaying it to you.
A nasty accusation made about you by someone can create a reputation that is undeserved. Majority of guys don't want to have anything to do with a girl said to sleep with multiple males, including me.
Find yourself a MAN who doesn't know the rumors, and he will fulfill your partner needs for a lifetime. Good luck, and remember that you are entitled to love from a person as wonderful as you are!
2006-07-06 09:38:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a female is promiscuous, then she becomes an easy target. Don't take the word "easy" out of context. This just means that males think that since this girl is sexual, that they have an easy and good chance.
However, just when that female sleeps with a male that others don't like (or envious), then, they become a "slut".
2006-07-06 09:34:07 · answer #5 · answered by Scott D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever heard people say "it's not what you say, it's how you say it?" That probably applies to you. You may not go around sleeping w/tons of guys but you act like a ****. Stop acting that way. If you do sleep with lots of guys, then this is a dumb question, but I'm assuming you don't.Maybe you're a flirt but not a ****.In any case, Don't let them tell you that. Treat yourself with more respect and other people will do the same. When people start calling you names it's because you let them. It looks like you have problems with your self-worth.
2006-07-06 09:37:28 · answer #6 · answered by sublime3212001 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys are just plain jerks, and insecure...so putting you down makes them feel superior. HOWEVER, that being said, are YOU doing anything to promote or suggest that label (through your attire, behavior or other verbal or non-verbal activities)? If you are, and don't like the label, change! If they're being jerks, avoid them, Remember, the lion heeds not the yapping of the jackals! If you're "secure" in your own head, leave the rest of the world to deal with these guys...don't waste any energy trying to change other people...ain't gonna happen.
2006-07-06 09:35:59 · answer #7 · answered by wizardmenlopark 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. Kissing is relaxing. If she become in an unique courting with someone even as doing that stuff and did not tell her better 0.5, that'd be kinda crappy. yet a slut? Nah. In my e book a slut is someone who exchanged sex for money or something.
2016-10-14 04:46:15 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe cuz the way u dress is skimpy, or u simply act like a ho. like maybe u had a lot of boyfriends in the best. im not insulting u im just saying that is y they might call u a slut. ooops u said guys answer that. well girls can 2!
2006-07-06 10:00:50 · answer #9 · answered by Jacky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, if you were sluts before, then you're sluts now and forever. It's okay though. Sluts are fun under the right circumstances. And by under I mean...well, I guess I don't need to explain that to you since you already know what I mean. You know, "under." Get it?
2006-07-06 09:31:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋