My body is how do I put this well endowed. So I don;t know why but boys think that I'm easy. I am a virgin and intend to stay that way until I'm married. But they think I'm a little hoe and I will give it up to anyone. I don't dress provocatively. I don't party alot. So can someone please tell me why?
2006-07-06 09:28:07 · 9 answers · asked by fashion_luvs_me 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Because you let them. You are only a victim the first time, after that, you are a willing participant. Respect yourself. No one can make you feel inferior without your consent. Honestly, why do you care what those boys think?
There is nothing wrong with being beautiful and that does not mean anyone should be allowed to treat you as anything less than any other girl.
I had the same problem growing up until I realized the problem was not mine, it was theirs. If I was harrassed, I threatened to press charges. Most men can't handle powerful women and usually leave them alone. Other men respect strong women and admire them for that rather than their body.
The bottom line is that you should concentrate on yourself and on what you think is important. Boys will be boys as long as you give them a chance to be.
2006-07-06 09:36:12 · answer #1 · answered by Kristonia 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I have always felt bad for "well endowed" girls. I feel bad for you.
Guys are wired to go after your b**bs and obviously they do. That is a lot pressure on you.
When I was in high school - at least 5 girls that I knew got pregnant and they were all big b**b girls. I remember one in 6th grade had D's then -- 10th grade drop out due to pregnancy.
Anyway, be strong. Ignore those guys and wait for a much more deserving guy when you are older, hopefully in college.
2006-07-06 10:42:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you are a cute girl then that's probably why men try to hit on you. It's not that they all think you're a slut, it's probably b/c your a cute girl and they want 'a piece' of you. Just keep doing what you're doing and don't worry about those idiots.
By the way, never say you are 'well endowed' - that refers to a man's genetalia - and it means they have a big penis.
2006-07-06 09:33:15 · answer #3 · answered by amyvnsn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because guys are like dogs they will hump anything unless you smack them with a newspaper. Seriously though if you are blessed guys, know that you have had plenty of oppurtunity so they assume you have done it alot. So they think will do it again so they assume you are lying when you say you are a virgin and then assume you just don't want to have sex with them. So get used to explaining that you are a virgin and plan to stay that way. AND GRAB THE NEWSPAPER lol
2006-07-06 09:36:18 · answer #4 · answered by fly on the wall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your answered your own question,
The answer is
BOYS !
there hormones are abit over board right now.~!
Its normal for a BOY and a MAN to look at a nice looking female~!.
Just stick to your MORELS and you will be just fine .
I want to also say, I'm very impressed,
you are not having sex yet,~ !
Believe me at a young age having sex just gives you a bad reputation ~ perhaps a baby ~ and other issues !
You have made a great choice.~!
Take care , Stay Strong.
~*~*~*~*~Peace.
2006-07-06 09:45:11 · answer #5 · answered by Brat-tett & Brat Pack's 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men are men they are always going to be that way . just always stand your ground and dont ever fall into pressure. stand strong always and let them know you are no a hoe and will not tolerate it
2006-07-06 09:42:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The key word is"BOYS". It's probably because you won't put out for them.
2006-07-06 09:35:40 · answer #7 · answered by ham9teen72 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they dont see you for who you really are.to here more email me
2006-07-06 09:41:33 · answer #8 · answered by Deonte L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are probably just hoping you are.
2006-07-06 09:36:52 · answer #9 · answered by girlpower 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋