my curiosity has gotten the best of me. I really didn't want to stoop to being one of the people who asks stupid sex questions on yahoo answers, but i guess the day has come for me to do so. This doesn't have any importance to the question I'm about to ask, but I am a virgin ( I don't want my reputation ruined, even if it's just online. might be too late for that though... oh well.) ok so anyways here's the question:
I have been trying to get myself to have an orgasm for a while now ( since i started being obsessed with this it has been like 4 months and ive never had one)... i do feel something, but if what i feel is an orgasm, hell i can live without sex haha... i say this because after a long time (boring) of stimulation i just feel relaxed. sometimes this just helps me go to sleep...kind of weird. i don't get any heavy breathing, no shaking, no tense muscles, nothing. just a very relaxed feeling. is this the only thing that my body will allow me to feel? i feel like it is. :(
2006-07-06 09:24:24 · 3 answers · asked by malintzin 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
I understand! You just have to go with what works for you. Like someone said, it's the psychology of it all. There's no way to tell you EXACTLY how it will feel but there will be tensing of your muscles. Another thing- you might want to just give it a break. Wait a while until you're "in the mood." You can try porn, too.
But if you don't pay attention to anything else I've said, please know this: sex is not about having an orgasm. It's about being with someone and sharing yourself. (that's my soapbox. being a victim of forced sex, this is something you learn the hard way.)
2006-07-06 13:24:37 · answer #1 · answered by california_gurl16 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Doubt it hon. Just wait until you get a hot guys hot lips on your neck and see if all you feel is relaxed. Masturbation is a different breed than sex. Certainly worthwhile, but the psychology of being totally turned on by a guy (or girl) is what makes those sparks shoot through your body.
Also, maybe you need some toys.
2006-07-06 09:31:58 · answer #2 · answered by Phoenix, Wise Guru 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You would know if you had the big o trust me.I don`t recmend toy`s because your a virgin still and even though that is not a man it still makes you loose.Any way try your clit after your excited.Make sure its wetw/ what ever and rub back and forth..............and at first you probally won`t be able to stant it you`ve found the right place....
2006-07-06 10:50:03 · answer #3 · answered by *~*dragonFly*~* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋