my father is the humanized form of jelousy(so is my brother) and because of that,i cannot have a relationship!that didn't matter till i found this boy that drives me crazy!should i start the relationship behind my father's back or what?
2006-07-06 09:22:54 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I wouldn't do things behind his back...
Why is he so jealous? And of what?
You should find this out before starting a relationship....
2006-07-06 09:24:30 · answer #1 · answered by kristijay99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy is not the emotion that fathers and brothers feel when they don't want their young daugter or sister to get into a relationship before they are ready. It's called concern and compassion. If the boy drives you crazy he can also hurt you, he could probably hurt you so very badly that it might actually change the sort of person you become. They know that, you should too.
If you don't have your own place, what the heck do you need a relationship for anyway? What good is a relationship if you still live in your parent's house?
2006-07-06 16:28:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER go behind your fathers back Because somehow he will find out, just sit your dad down and tell him you never felt this way about any man before and if he can't except the fact that your older now and you want this relationship then he is just not the best dad in the world.
2006-07-06 16:32:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how old you are, and how much older the boy is... need more infomation... If you are at the age where you can make good decisions... then I would say yes... go ahead have some fun, its summer... just don't get caught.. then you will never get to leave the house!
2006-07-06 16:25:58 · answer #4 · answered by Kristin M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fathers and brothers will protect little sisters and daughters. You see so much of women being beat by boyfriends and husbands, its hard for fathers to let go of their little girls, and for brothers they want to protect dad and mom and of course little sister. So you see jealousy may not be jealousy they may be just protecting you. Have a hart to hart with dad and he may just lighten up.
2006-07-06 16:33:34 · answer #5 · answered by big T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? Without knowing your age I cna't really give you the benefit of my sound advice.
2006-07-06 16:28:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i think u shoud go to ur dad and tell him that ur not a lil girl anymore and ill havea family my ownthats what i did i got my way.
2006-07-06 16:32:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old r u? if your over 17 then go for it life is too short to not see what it has to offer;).
good luck
2006-07-06 16:25:05 · answer #8 · answered by QUEEN OF LOS ANGELES 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y is he jelous? that is one thing... I think he is just worried. He is just afraid. I say you should go behind his bak.. Then in a week or 2 if your still datin him.. Sit down and talk to your Dad.. And dont care wat your bro says unless he is tellin u that he is bad!
~Rachel~
2006-07-06 16:28:11 · answer #9 · answered by Rae Rae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do you mean humanized form of jealousy. I can't advise you because I don't know what you mean.
2006-07-06 16:25:39 · answer #10 · answered by nastaany1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋