when i was 6-12 year old i use to kiss girl and i like it. then when i was 13-14 i stopped playing those game. but i also date boy and i like it to too. well now that im 15 i have been thinking about girls a lot and not about boys. my question is what i am bisexual lesbian straight?
2006-07-06 09:16:14 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
i get excited when i see a girl or think about girls
2006-07-06 09:51:31 · update #1
well when i see a cute girl i want to be her friends
2006-07-06 10:30:27 · update #2
I think it's too early to tell. Although, some people live their whole life and never figure it out. You are still growing up and hormones are doing all kinds of strange things. At this point, you could end up bisexual or lesbian. It all depends on what turns you on. If it's girls only, it means lesbian. Boys and girls, it means bisexual, which also means sometimes sexual desire will fluctuate back and forth.
2006-07-06 11:36:59 · answer #1 · answered by Girasol 5 · 5⤊ 1⤋
There is a category called "Questioning Youth" and maybe that is where you are. Many straight people, especially young ones THINK about same sex actions and love, but this is just your mind exploring. Give it some time, you'll be what you are. But don't let a label identify you. Let your heart and mind do that. And there's plenty of time. I didn't decide for myself that I was gay until I was 30 years old! That's late, but what the heck!
Oh, and the kissing when you were 6-12. That's just kids stuff, nothing more. Don't let that be a factor at all.
2006-07-06 16:41:39 · answer #2 · answered by michael941260 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was the same way. I would have probably been a lesbian had it not been for my upbringing. I was raised in the Bible Belt of the USA and this lifestyle would never have been supported by my family. I guess I never gave it a thought until I was much older. Had a girlfriend in college but ended up marrying a guy. Almost a decade later I have fiinally found my soul mate.....in a woman!!!!
2006-07-06 16:25:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most likely you're straight..its just hormones...I used to go through the same thing...but towards the end of my fifteen age...i started liking guys more...don't get worried....the same thing goes here. You'll start to like guys more, especially when you one with a shirt off that has a muscular hot body...(that clicked the boy liking gene on for me)...
2006-07-07 12:02:25 · answer #4 · answered by poetic_lala 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you're bisexual, but really no one can decide this bu you. You have to think of what you're comfortable with. If you want to be straight, you're straight. But if you don't, if you want to be with girls, you're either bisexual or a lesbian, but it's entirely up to you.
2006-07-06 16:58:06 · answer #5 · answered by Cyn90 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
You are bisexual, lesbian or straight.
You Need to give yourself time to find out which.
Experiment and see for yourself.
2006-07-06 16:21:32 · answer #6 · answered by ♂ Randy W. ♂ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should first see if your comfortable with either girls or boys, if both then sure i guess you would be bisexual.
2006-07-06 16:19:48 · answer #7 · answered by pbvale321 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should see what makes you happy, if you enjoy kissing girls and want to be a lesbian that is fine
2006-07-06 17:54:25 · answer #8 · answered by brandeefleming 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does it really matter? Why does everyone have to label themselves?
Nothing is black and white. Labels just limit your options and make it harder to find your true self.
Just do what feels good with people who care about you and you will be happy.
2006-07-07 11:10:14 · answer #9 · answered by mutherwulf 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have those feelings some times too. but i was reading in an article that just because you like girls dosent meen your are gay, u you might like them because u admire thier trates and/or wish to develop them. i hope this info will help!
2006-07-06 16:24:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋