if you found out that your significant other not only lied to you but cheated on you as well would you give them another chance? i haven't caught her but i have my suspicions and gut feeling but i don't want to jump 2 conclusions. just to give you one reason why i have my suspicions.i took our son a friday and she didnt see him again until the following thursday and not 1 time did she call to see how he was doing nor did she call to wish him a happy fourthof july. and when i tried to bring him home she tolm me very angrily: " B****He needs to stay with you again tonight i have plans!!" I told her if she wants to run rthe streets give me full custody. she told ne "never" i think i'm going to court. am i jumping the gun??
2006-07-06 09:00:13 · 7 answers · asked by dewee111 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you have scheduled visitation and she planned something knowing her son was due back home that night she was in the wrong. Parenting is a full time thing even if you are split up. As far as jumping the gun..probably not but I would ask your son "in a casual conversation way" how she behaves normally. Stuff like.."What do you and mommy do on weekends?" Try to find out how often she leaves your son with a sitter. If she is cheating on you that's one thing, if shes doing it a the cost of neglecting the child that's another.
2006-07-06 09:19:59 · answer #1 · answered by angel.inew 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is being a unfit parent I'd go to court for custody but first you must have a case against her. Keep a log on all the days she has you keep him that you normally would not have kept him. Be aware how your son is being treated, is he being feed properly, are his clothes clean ,is he sleeping well. How does he react to his mom, would he rather be with you?Moms' who run around can bring men into the home and we all have read stories on the hoorible things that can happen to children by boyfriends or girlfriends. The only other thing I'd like to say and since I dont' know you it's easier than if I did, Are you doing this out of hurt that she has obiviously given you? If not I applaud you for being a good dad and wish you the best.
2006-07-06 16:23:08 · answer #2 · answered by deerevaz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
??? Another chance? It sounds like you are already separated. I don't see that as an issue of lying or cheating any longer. The real issue is why she seems to have given up responsibility for your son.
If this this the first time, you may want to wait. If it keeps occurring, then by all means go for custody. It doesn't sound like she has your son's interest in mind at the moment.
2006-07-06 16:09:17 · answer #3 · answered by Dale P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definitely get some answers first. Maybe get some cold hard evidence. Then go to court. Give it some time and get some answers.
2006-07-06 16:04:20 · answer #4 · answered by robert v 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i see ANGER of being stuck with Your SON!
NO ONE person can satisfy another person sexually 4-ever!
You are a parent, she is a parent!
i AM LOVE! YOU are LOVE! She is LOVE! Your SON is LOVE!
LOVE Your SON!
STOP worrying over Your court DATES!
LOVE! LOVE! LOVE!
YESHUA!
2006-07-06 16:07:59 · answer #5 · answered by YESHUA Y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm...no way i would give them another chance...cheated and LIED, she topped it...leave her!!
2006-07-06 16:07:13 · answer #6 · answered by *BeTtY* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OBVIOUSLY YOU ARE ALREADY SEPARATED, SO WHY NOT JUST GET ON WITH IT.
2006-07-06 16:05:12 · answer #7 · answered by BAG LADY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋