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2006-07-06 08:55:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Just wait until the baby is born and have a DNA test done. Maybe it isn't even his child. If it is, he still needs to take responsibility, no matter how old he is. He may not be able to help financially if he isn't old enough to work, but if he can sleep with a girl, he can help take care of a baby. Don't make excuses for him and try to get him out of this. Unless, of course, it's not his child. Make him stand up and take responsibility. There are already enough dead-beat parents in this world. Kids need both their mom and their dad.
2006-07-06 09:00:31 · answer #1 · answered by *~*~*~*~* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, learn from your brother - wait for marriage or buy a Sam's Club supply of condoms for yourself and use them every time!
Second, he needs proof of the pregnancy. Therefore, he needs to buy a test with her and take it together. If she is bluffing, then he knows right then and there. If not, then he is part of the process from the get go - and he should be as he participated in the sex act!
Third, together they should talk to a trusted adult. By adult, I mean someone over 21. That could be a parent, a teacher, a priest, a summer camp counselor, yadda, yadda, yadda. Many options are available - however, the decision is THEIRS although they are young. Adults and associations can guide the decision making process and provide education - but NO ONE person should give a judgment and decision for your brother or the girl. Ultimately they have to live with their choice.
Lastly, this is why sex is for adults. Sex too young presents adult situations for persons who haven't reached adulthood. Better to wait!!!
2006-07-06 16:08:46 · answer #2 · answered by Genie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too bad if he's too young...he may be a daddy, and someone has to take responsibility. First things first, you will have to have a dna test done after the baby is born to prove its his...then if it is..he's gonna have to step up to the plate...he was old enough to have sex...then he's old enough to face the consequences
2006-07-06 17:34:33 · answer #3 · answered by mommy_2_liam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in that case when you have young ones engaging in sexual activity theirs usaully not alot of smart thinking being involed so what you should do is relax take some time apart to let time play its role and display the true side of the real situation
2006-07-06 16:30:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell ur idiot little brother to keep it in his pants and tell her to grow up but while your doing that take her to a doctor and get here checked and if it turns out positive then ur brother is screwed for life if its negative calll her every bad name you can think of and drop her off in the middle of the ghetto at 3 in the morning
2006-07-06 15:58:09 · answer #5 · answered by ripdom415 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all why is your brother having sex and how old is he? I think that u should get that girl checked maybe she is lieing.how long has she been pregnant?
2006-07-06 16:06:46 · answer #6 · answered by sephora 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, firstly he should have kept his snake in his pants if he's too young. Secondly until the baby is born he wont be able to really know if it is his but until then.....im afraid he screwed!
2006-07-06 16:02:31 · answer #7 · answered by chrissy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing you can do. just be cool and stick with it.
have him compromise with her and just stick together, try and work things out for the long hail.
it will make things easier on them both in the long run.
no reason why they couldn't eaiter.
if they both tried hard enough that is.
2006-07-06 15:58:47 · answer #8 · answered by light08th 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time to get a job. dna testing to see if its his. apparently he isnt too young hes having sex buy him a huge box of condoms
2006-07-06 15:58:48 · answer #9 · answered by kleighs mommy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ah maybe you should've bought him some rain coats before he got wet...
2006-07-06 15:58:16 · answer #10 · answered by Thelizardking 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋