dose it hurt how what kind of way's can you do it what was your first time like should i do it @ 16 or 18 what age
2006-07-06 08:52:50 · 12 answers · asked by ash 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
sex is different for everyone. how it feels depends on you. i can take the time to describe it but you may never feel what i feel. you shouldn't have sex until you are completely ready. never let anyone force you into it. the mature thing to do is if you are going to have sex at least wait till you are 18 and with someone you really feel you love. if you are with someone who says that to love is to make love and with out sex a relationship doesn't exist then that person is only trying to get into your pants. men will use every excuse to get you in bed, a real man will wait till you are ready, if you are ever ready. I didn't enjoy sex until i was 25...yeah, that seems like a long time, but it's true. I was naive when it came to sex, i thought in order to love someone or to have them love me I had to have sex. i learned that it wasn't true, that 2 people can love each other without sex! that if someone kept trying to have sex with me before i was ready, didn't love or care for me, just wanted to get into my pants. there are many books on sex and i'm sure you can find one that will help you understand what sex is. if you take nothing from what you just read, at least remember this....ALWAYS USE A CONDOM!
2006-07-06 09:11:16 · answer #1 · answered by HopeThisHelps 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's great, but it's not the be all end all of everything. That is why you should wait until it is with someone you at least care about, so that if it doesn't go right (and it usually doesn't the first time) at least you can say. Oh well, I still like you and we can always try again. I don't think you have to be married, but you should at least be an adult. Simply because as an adult you can be prepared for any consequences (mainly pregnancy). Be patient...Don't worry about "how to" you'll figure it out when the time comes.
2006-07-06 08:58:33 · answer #2 · answered by All I Hear Is Blah Blah Blah... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Should wait until you find that special somebody and married. Of course, if you can't resist, then at least find that somebody special that really does care about you and won't dump you afterwards. There's no good age cause that varies for everyone, but better to be an adult if possible so you can make a better judgement.
2006-07-06 08:57:47 · answer #3 · answered by LW 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Believe me. You should wait for your day of marriage. I did not do that and now regret it. It is not going to be easy, but if you are mentally strong you can do it. You will thank yourself for doing so when you are older. That is the only time you will understand what I am saying.
2006-07-06 08:59:37 · answer #4 · answered by David M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The topic of sex can go on forever, however, if you are unsure of when you should have sex, then you don't seem ready. You can only loose your virginity once. Save yourself for someone you can trust and depend on. Wait til you are older.
2006-07-06 08:59:11 · answer #5 · answered by SarahBeans 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should at least wait until you are out of school. I know none of the other kids did, but you will be a lot happier if you do
2006-07-06 08:56:47 · answer #6 · answered by Iron Rider 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will hurt so bad you wish you never did it. Only your husband will know how to not hurt you.
2006-07-06 08:57:41 · answer #7 · answered by finchfactory 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ahhh ahhh oohh yeahh mmmm more moreee ahhh thats it baby gimmie gimmie ohhh aaaa mmm !!!
im done,wheres the ciggaretes?lolz
2006-07-06 08:58:50 · answer #8 · answered by xx_dragonz_xx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey..ash..time would tell when you are ready..Don't rush.it..
make sure is with someone that you care and is responsible...and yeah...always use protection...You don't want to end up....regretting it...And..well just enjoy it...
2006-07-07 19:42:31 · answer #9 · answered by izk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex is like a slurpy....drink to quick and you get a headache
2006-07-06 08:56:16 · answer #10 · answered by smartmitch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋