on 6/5/06 my men had to tickets for the baseball game and he ask me do i wont to go an i told him no because i don't like baseball, not a girly kind of sport. so he insist on i should go but i did'nt wont to hurt his feeling so i said i will go.meanwhile the game started at 7:00pm, and befor the time was up we took a nap, he suggest we get some rest so we did after that we wroke up an hour befor the game started an i was still tired from working all day so i said im too tired to go baby and he said if you don't wont to go you don't have to so i said ok i will stay home. then at that point he got very mad an we have been arguing every sence that day. he wont talk, he wont give me money, he wont ride the same bus with me or set together. now he yelling about put your half on the rent. i tried talking to him and he told me dont ask him for nothing. it's been 2days of attitued. i even try telling him that im sorry and he wont except it so what should i do?
2006-07-06 08:49:56 · 15 answers · asked by applecatorange 2 in News & Events ➔ Other - News & Events
slap him in the face and tell him he's an idiot
2006-07-06 08:54:34 · answer #1 · answered by anotherAzn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy tickets to the next game and surprise him. Next time try to take another couple along so you can chat with the other girl. You should not have backed out of your promise. Married or not, BOTH of you have to compromise to make it work. Who knows, you may have had fun. And like others have said, you use it as an "I did this with you, now you can do this with me". Use nice tones when you say it...
There is another thing that you could do - but you have to do it the right way! You could go and make it such a miserable time, he will not ask you again. Kind of like asking him to make the bed or fold the towels - he won't do it the way you want on purpose just to get out of doing it ever again!! That is an OLD married trick!!!
2006-07-06 16:06:11 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think maybe he's upset because perhaps he spent a lot of money on these tickets thinking it'd be something fun for you to do together and you backed out at the last minute.
Personally, I think things like this are a tradeoff - if you go to the baseball game with him, maybe he'll do something "girly" for you. That might be why he's so upset. Take this for example: my friend loves all kinds of sports, so her boyfriend takes her to Yankee games, even though he can't stand sports. She, in turn, goes to car shows with him, even though to her, a car is just a mode of transportation. They do these things because they care about the other person, so they suck it up and do it.
2006-07-06 15:57:27 · answer #3 · answered by zippythejessi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm...i have no suggestions for your posted question, but someone should go back to school and learn how to spell/type....wow....I had to read some of it twice to figure out what the hell you were trying to say!
1 point though, so are you free loading or something? You don't pay your half of the rent and you need to get money from him.....man, he should get out while he can!!!!
2006-07-06 15:55:23 · answer #4 · answered by Jim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not about a baseball game, so apologizing won't do any good.
Sounds like he feels like he has been paying for everything and taking care of you and he feels like you don't appreciate it.
Talk to him about it that way, tell him all the stuff that you appreciate that he does.
Or, get a job and start contributing $$ to the relationship.
Or, find a new man to support you.
2006-07-06 15:57:07 · answer #5 · answered by jkk109 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move out! This guy isn't someone that you want to be around. If someone punishes you for something you didn't want to do; they aren't even worth your time! I bet you could find someone even better than that loser. (Sorry if I affended you or anything!)
Like you should have gone to the game since he pays for everything--but if you are tried/feel sick; he should understand! There are OTHER baseball games you could go to another time!
2006-07-06 15:56:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you promised the man that you would go. You should have gone for him. I'm sure he does a lot of stuff for you too like shopping. When another game is around, buy tickets and this time GO!
2006-07-06 15:55:11 · answer #7 · answered by sellatieeat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was probably mad because he wanted to spend time doing something fun with you, then you said you would go, then changed your mind, disappointing him, and leaving him at the last minute with nobody to go with. So yes I think you were wrong, as for the major temper tantrum your man is having, he needs to get over it.
2006-07-06 15:56:16 · answer #8 · answered by MC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first, you need to understand that a relationship means compromise....he wants to go to the game, go to the game with him. You want to go to a ballet he can go with you (or whatever your thing is you like that he doesn't) Second you need to apologize and mean it, then if he doesn't accept and explain to him why you're sorry then he just wants a reason to be mad and you should just move on.
2006-07-06 15:55:43 · answer #9 · answered by jenn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just give him some bootie. That usually works on men throwing hissy fits.
2006-07-06 16:37:14 · answer #10 · answered by lilstarfan25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are wrong... if you give your word to do something you have to do it ... you bf should be able to count on you always no exceptions... what you should do ... stop thinking so much about what you need and about what is bothering you about this whole fight ... who cares that you are going to have to start paying... you dont care about that.. you care about your relationship! start thinking about your priorities and he will see in your actions and your word if you are really sorry..
2006-07-06 15:58:14 · answer #11 · answered by qesloqes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋