I cant help it because all these hot guys keep hitting on me. I luv my husband but...Do you think it's okay if I cheat on him with a hotter man?
2006-07-06 08:41:48 · 106 answers · asked by sexygirlnary 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ok Unlike any of the other answers I don't think you asked so that you would be put down but, yes cheating is very wrong. Its even wrong if your husband is already cheating. You know what is right and I am sure you will do the right thing or you would not have asked for others help on this one. Do not cheat, it will eat you up inside and one day you will tell him and it will kill him as well. Then that word you spelled luv will be gone along with trust, respect, and anything else you have for eachother. But, if you are considering it just please leave and if not for him leave for yourself do not put you and your husband through this.
2006-07-06 09:07:02 · answer #1 · answered by Jayme 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Gee lets think about this for a minute! NO! You don't love your husband or yourself if you want to cheat on him with a hotter man. You need to tell these "hot guys" that you are married and you would like to stay that way so it would be nice if they went on with their games somewhere else. How would you feel if your husband want to cheat on you because some girl with bigger t**s was flirting with him and went and done it? I'm sure you wouldn't like it if he walked in the door some night and said "Honey I had sex with this other woman because her t**s were bigger than yours!" Do what you gotta do but I hope you know better than to do something like that to your husband! I all you wanted in life was to run around and act like a wh**e then you shouldn't have got married!!
2006-07-06 08:58:39 · answer #2 · answered by ~Amanda~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. What an ignorant and immature question. Of course it's not "okay". You want to sleep with other guys? Do this:
#1: Tell your husband you're getting approached by other guys, and you don't have the self-control, discipline or respect for him to stop yourself from having an affair, even though you haven't had one yet.
#2: Initiate divorce proceedings, and be very fair to him -- after all, this whole thing is your fault, not his. Let him take everything he came in with; you do the same, and any shared assets (house, cars, cash) sell 'em and divide equally or in HIS favor (again, you caused this.) Be honest with the judge about why you're doing this. You're already doing something awful to your husband (and you never should have agreed to marry him in the first place) so don't jerk him around. Let him out of this sham of a marriage.
#3: Once divorced, and not before, sleep with all the men you want, except the married ones.
2006-07-06 08:51:14 · answer #3 · answered by daveowenville 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not ok. That's the problem these days...people like you treat marriage like it means absolutely nothing. You took a vow. Either stick to it and be faithful or get a divorce. Why did you get married in the first place? Take a good hard look at the man you claim to love and remember what made you love him in the first place. And P.S., just because some of these guys might be hotter than your husband doesn't mean they will love you and treat you right.
2006-07-06 08:45:59 · answer #4 · answered by SuperJenn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO,that is so terrible. You should have found a hotter man and married him. Now what if you cheat on your husband with the hot guy and you catch an uncurable STD. Those are some things you need to think about.
2006-07-06 08:45:31 · answer #5 · answered by fashion_luvs_me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!!! Why do you want to cheat on your husband? If you really loved your husband, then all those guys hitting on you would seem sleazy. You should really think about how much it would kill your husband to know that his wife was happier with someone else than with him. In fact, imagine what it would feel like if your husband was cheating on you.You have to remember that your husband is more than just an accessory and that he's with you for life. Maybe you have commitment issues. And if you're really thinking about it , then ask him if it's OK. If you feel like you can't talk to him about it, then don't cheat on him. You should be able to go to your husband for anything and everything. Just by asking everyone on here first shows me that you know it would be wrong.
2006-07-06 08:50:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell NO!! If you wanted to mess around you shouldn't have got married. If you cheat just because someone else is hotter then you are going to realize beauty is only skin deep. Men don't respect women who cheat, no matter what the reason. You can't keep the other men from wanting you, but you can control your own body. Think before you act on this, once you go there, there is no undoing it.
2006-07-06 08:49:38 · answer #7 · answered by biiha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are nuts girl and what about honor to your relationship? You should not have married if you wanted all these hotter people. It is not OK and you will find out in life that this too shall turn around and come your way. See if you like it if it is done to you and your husband starts to cheat with "hotter" women.
2006-07-06 08:44:25 · answer #8 · answered by antiekmama 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is kind of a silly question but I'll give it a go - morally it is wrong - even in todays twisted society it still is considered a bad thing - listen to some of your responses - many people still believe that cheating is wrong. In my first marriage I was married to a younger woman. She felt the same as you did and she talked to me about it. So in order to help her with her desire for variety I let her sleep with this hot guy we knew - WRONG! Tore me all up - she enjoyed it so much she kept right on doing it - with many men and behind my back - guess I had it coming for letting her do it once - we divorced! If you love your man find another way to deal with your desires besides another man. There are many ways and ideas we could discuss or you could go to a sex therapist (if you got the money) but try to find another answer.
2006-07-06 08:52:09 · answer #9 · answered by trickster_travels 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you wanted to be with hot guys. Then you should had stay single. You shouldn't jump up and gotten married. You should had back out, before saying I Do. Now your married and have a husband.
Go cheat on him, and tear a relationship with him apart. Then got a chance of getting STd from that other guy. Or worse get aids from him. Then you crawl back home to your husband, and give to him what you caught.
Get divorce, before hopping in other guys bed.
2006-07-06 08:47:39 · answer #10 · answered by kygl28 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋