If you go to a strip club and get a lap dance when your significant other doesn't know you went?
2006-07-06 08:40:51 · 13 answers · asked by Rolly 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think cheating is defined by you and your partner. It's not about the act itself; it's about sharing a level of intimacy with someone else that should be reserved for your partner. If your partner found out, would she/he be angry? If he/she would, would it be because you shared a level of intimacy with someone else that should be reserved for him/her alone? If so, it's cheating.
2006-07-06 08:47:02 · answer #1 · answered by Cunning Linguist 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I dont seem to think so. It is exactly what you mean. A lap dance. A DANCE. She is not kissing you, or trying to have sex with you or anything like that. If you go to a club or party and dance with another girl, is that called cheating? If you dance with your cousin, is taht cheating? If you dance with your girlfriend's cousin, is that cheating? Its just a dance, the only difference is that she isnt wearing any clothes and you actually have to pay for it.
2006-07-06 15:51:31 · answer #2 · answered by bad2bone2212 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is cheating especially if she doesn't know you went. Now if she would of gone with you and said get a lap dance then no but you did it behind her back and she will definately think it is cheating cuz another woman touched you in a place that she shouldn't
2006-07-06 18:00:53 · answer #3 · answered by Wendy B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not cheating, only sneaking around behind her back. Cheating usually comes next. Would you consider it cheating if she went to Chippendales and got a lap dance without you knowing?
2006-07-06 15:46:20 · answer #4 · answered by J P 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Basically you went behind your girlfriends back and you got a lap dance from another girl who was naked and you never told her about it. YES that is cheating....Imagine if she did the same thing to you, how would you feel?
2006-07-06 15:45:43 · answer #5 · answered by Bay Area Gal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if it happened to you and you found out what you think it would be? its not cheating but if you partner wouldnt want you to ever go to a strip club and you went behind their back its being unfaithful to them
2006-07-06 15:44:36 · answer #6 · answered by Ashley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you wanna go to a strip club when you have someone? doesn't make sense to me.
2006-07-06 15:45:13 · answer #7 · answered by tiffany228 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself this. How would you feel if you found out that your wife had some guys c*ck all up in her face ? So close that she can smell him. Make you feel all warm and fuzzy inside ?
2006-07-06 15:47:56 · answer #8 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you found it important enough to ask, its considered cheating.
2006-07-06 15:46:34 · answer #9 · answered by EvilFairies 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think so but i go with my husband we have lots of fun.....
2006-07-06 15:44:32 · answer #10 · answered by MINDY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋