I really dont want new friends because i might forget all the best times me and my old friends had, i might even forget them.
2006-07-06 08:16:59 · 6 answers · asked by Life's Web 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Making new friends won't make you forget about your old ones. If the friendship between you and your friends is true, then you moving shouldn't change that friendship, and making new ones should change that either. You will always be meeting new people.
I personally juust moved to a different state after spending my entire life in California. I thought it would be hell, but when I opened myself up to the friendship of others, things weren't so lonely, and the true friends that I've had in the past are still my friends. We still talk online, on the phone, etc. I'm at the end of my vacation visiting California, and throughout this time, I've found out who my real friends are: the ones that have been there for me while I've been gone, and these are the ones that I feel are worth keeping. As for those that I felt were not worth keeping, I still have the memories that I had with them. No matter how many new friends I make, those memories will never fade, and the friendships that I've made will forever stay. How am I so confident? Because I've seen it happen. My mom is still close to her friends from high school and they're all in different places, and they have all met new people.
Open yourself up to new friendship possibilities because if you don't, you're just making yourself be lonely and miserable, and I doubt your friends want that to happen to you. Cheer up!
2006-07-06 08:25:03 · answer #1 · answered by LTD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I grew up in the Military-Sometimes I had a best friend for a summer or a school year-and eventually someones Dad would get orders to move and off we go! I always hated the place we went to and loved the place we left. You have a tool I didn't have growing up...THE INTERNET! You can keep in touch with your old friends, tell them everything going on in your "New Life". One more thing-Because you are moving to a place that doesn't Know YOU, you have a chance to re-make yourself into anything you want to be. Moving to an unknown place means you have no History there. Use your imagination! Have fun! You will see that very soon you will have a "New Life",all your own making. Don't forget the old friends, treasure your time... you have the luxury of knowing that it will change,live it to the fullest and you will have memories to last a lifetime.
2006-07-06 08:36:52 · answer #2 · answered by thetaxibabe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't forget your old friends, but don't be afraid to make new ones. You can keep in touch with your old friends via e-mail, snail-mail and the phone. If you don't live too far, maybe a visit may be in store (a weekend trip maybe?)
If you're young, and still in school, you'll meet new people. It's a part of life- moving on.
You may meet up with people just like you who have moved and had to adjust to a new home, town, school and so on.
If you go to a church or a place of worship, perhaps, that would be a way to meet people. You can learn about where to go in town for fun and what's cool and what's not.
I hope these ideas help.
2006-07-06 08:32:38 · answer #3 · answered by Malika 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should call them or e-mail them or write them i'm pretty sure they wont forget about you just try to stay in contact with them the best u can kk? good luck!
2006-07-06 08:23:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should still get new friends or the depression well grow and you wont be able to go on get yahoo friends like me you can e-mail me at
niekagotgame@yahoo.com
2006-07-06 08:23:45 · answer #5 · answered by nieka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go over there to visit them
2006-07-06 08:21:02 · answer #6 · answered by purplegirlx93 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋