i have dreamed it also! what do you think the meaning is behind this dream!
2006-07-06 08:15:43 · 27 answers · asked by Lindsey Leigh 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
To dream that you are cheating on your spouse, mate, or significant other, suggests feelings of self-guilt and self-betrayal. You may have compromised your beliefs or integrity and/or wasting your energy and time on fruitless endeavors. Alternatively, it reflects the intensity of your sexual passion and exploring areas of your sexuality. It is a reaffirmation of your commitment.
To dream that your mate, spouse, or significant other is cheating on you, indicates your fears of being abandoned. You may feel a lack of attention in the relationship. Alternatively, you may feel that you are not measuring up to the expectations of others. This notion may stem from issues of trust or self-esteem.
2006-07-06 08:20:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband may be sensing you have a secret you're not telling him or maybe you cheating is a fear of his, whether rational or not. A lot of dreams don't really have any meaning, but a reaccuring one could (and it may not actually mean he thinks you're cheating). You are probably having the dream because he keeps telling you about it and you're trying to figure out what it means. Talk to your hubby and make sure there's nothing on his mind, he's not worried about anything and feels secure in your marriage. If the dream doesn't go away, encourage him to talk to a counselor about what it could mean.
2006-07-06 15:24:02 · answer #2 · answered by ericalsmith2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down and think about what it is in your marriage that you feel you're missing. Maybe there's something (sex isn't as passionate as it used to be, communication, cuddle time, just being together....anything) and your giving off that "I need something more" vibe to your husband, hence the dreams. It doesn't mean you're going to cheat, dreams don't make people cheat, people do that on their own. After you've thought about it, talk to your husband. Chances are it's something easily worked on if you give it the chance.
2006-07-06 15:22:44 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a dreams intuition is always the meaning of a true story or something that is coming close to happen in reality, not necessarily how u dreamed it but close to what u have dreamed and with the same cause and effect. especially w u saying that u have too is maybe a fantasy that u have that, for u're husband is a fear!!
2006-07-06 15:39:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Froid would say that thous dreams represent suppressed desires in unconsciousness, some kind of conflict that have to be resolved. May be one of you suffered badly from cheating before and just don't want to go through it again you keep on bring this issues back to the point that you dream of it now.
2006-07-06 15:26:13 · answer #5 · answered by tanya g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most of the time the dream means the opposite of what is really going within the dream ,then on the other hand it could be your husband is feeling guilty of something and is hoping you do cheat so he can feel better about it .
2006-07-06 15:20:20 · answer #6 · answered by Wizzarrdd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The dream means confusion. You are going to have serious problems with your husband for cheating . You are going to cheat on him too in revenge.
2006-07-06 15:19:52 · answer #7 · answered by lucky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always have dreams that my husband is cheating on me, alot. So if you're husband is having those dreams, Are you cheating on him? I would love to know, so that i can tell if my dreams are right.
2006-07-06 15:23:57 · answer #8 · answered by lola 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating
To dream that you are cheating on your spouse, mate, fiancé, or significant other, suggests feelings of self-guilt and self-betrayal. You may have compromised your beliefs or integrity and/or wasting your energy and time on fruitless endeavors. Alternatively, it reflects the intensity of your sexual passion and exploring areas of your sexuality. It is actually a reaffirmation of your commitment. Furthermore, it is not uncommon for people approaching a wedding to have dreams about erotic experiences with partners other than their intended spouses. Most likely, such dreams represent the newness of your sexual passion. It may also signify anxieties of changing your identity - that of a spouse.
To dream that your mate, spouse, or significant other is cheating on you, indicates your fears of being abandoned. You may feel a lack of attention in the relationship. Alternatively, you may feel that you are not measuring up to the expectations of others. This notion may stem from issues of trust or self-esteem. The dream could also indicate that you are unconsciously picking up hints and cues that your significant other is not being completely truthful or is not fully committed in the relationship.
2006-07-06 15:21:56 · answer #9 · answered by Sleek 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think that means anything.Probably your husband is worried after dreaming such a thing.Perhaps,he would have taling/pestering about it to you ensure it will stay as dream.Which indirectly effected you and created a phobia in your sub-conscious mind.Dont worry,its just psychology.If you have been thinking /talking abt something often you will definitely dream about it.
2006-07-06 15:26:43 · answer #10 · answered by dev 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋