i have had my heart badly broken by this types of guys since i always fall for nerdy ones; tall lanky bodies; wearing eyeglasses; business attire, don't have any fashion sense (or so they say) and the likes. but despite of their decent looks and clean image, they are the ones who are surprisingly insensitive, green minded, selfish, and ends up leaving? why is this so? i really need to know the answer, please... :(
2006-07-06 08:05:48 · 15 answers · asked by Inquirer 5 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Other - Arts & Humanities
They are just doing what people have done to them for years. It's all they know. It's like someone who was abused as a child. Chances are, they're going to abuse their children. You just have to find one that's the exception and stick with him.
2006-07-18 04:00:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some good answers already. But "nerdy guys" tend to be intelligent. They are usually over-sensitive, not insensitive. But they have had a lifetime of being discriminated against. if they think you are going to dump them - they may get in first. They get bored easily too. They are better with smart nerdy girls - but they do sometimes end up with attractive, but not so smart ones. Don't judge them all the same. Some get wrapped up in their subject or obsessed with it. I am, but as my subject is counseling and psychology - I'm a listener and women usually think I'm more caring than average. I'm not totally without fashion sense. It says Playground 78 on my t-shirt. No idea what it means - but I think it's supposed to be trendy! lol There is also a picture of what looks like the New York Skyline. Maybe that's the playground?
2006-07-06 15:23:22 · answer #2 · answered by Mike10613 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that a heartbreaker attitude can be associated to any one type of guy. Everyone has had a bad experience in a relationship. The point is to keep trying and not to feel resentment or blame towards a certain look or type.
2006-07-06 15:19:13 · answer #3 · answered by DNet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's because they have so little experience with dealing with people, and have such an ego from being rewarded for their brains so often, that they think they can do whatever the hell they want to whoever they want. I know a lot of nerd boys who have been with really nice girls and treated them like dirt
2006-07-06 15:15:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe not all the nerdy-looking guys are heart breakers, but if most of them are just do it back. I mean they're nerds right?
2006-07-06 15:11:55 · answer #5 · answered by Maria S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really? I'm one of those guys, and I always get left for a "dangerous" type, who then ends up and hurting the girl who left me.
2006-07-06 15:10:03 · answer #6 · answered by cirestan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think your problem is that nerdy-seeming guys are bigger jerks than other guys. I think your problem is probably more likely that you expect more of them based on their image, so you're more let down when they don't live up to it.
2006-07-06 15:09:36 · answer #7 · answered by Cols 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES, girls just ignore them and make them feel like crap, but when they grow up and make a lot of money the girls that rejected them are trying to hook up with them, they then break their hearts.
2006-07-06 15:08:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. My heart was just broken by one.
2006-07-06 15:12:13 · answer #9 · answered by mmw108 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they would rather marry themselves you know im not nerdy so im not going to stick up for them
2006-07-06 15:09:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋