which is better or wiser? being with the one you love or being with one who loves you. wat if you like both of them?
2006-07-06 07:42:24 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I dont
2006-07-06 07:44:58 · answer #1 · answered by Professor Riddle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its human nature. theres a time when a couple loves each other at the same time. of course thats always the beginning of the relationship.
but as time goes by, man could be bored and loves the girl less esp when the woman is so clingy inlove! but she gets tired of giving too, so she settles down, and wait for his attention until he loves again. both of you have different levels in a certain point in time. we just all wish that our partners are _always_ in the same level of love that we have. its just wise to stick with each other weather or not the other loves you the more. time is of the essence.
its a never ending up and down! just like making love!
2006-07-06 14:56:53 · answer #2 · answered by cutesy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its better to be loved than to do the loving. Being in love hurts the one who is doing the loving.
2006-07-06 14:47:46 · answer #3 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that both would be ideal but if I had to choose I would say to love. To love someone is the greatest feeling in the world, however it is only worthwhile if a person loves you back. It is good to love and its good to be loved. There has to be a balance of love and the reciprocation of that love in order for true happiness to occur.
2006-07-06 14:49:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To love. Then it's time for you to think carefully who you want to be with for the rest of your life. One mistake will hurt all three, so you have to make the right choice in this type of relationship.
2006-07-06 22:40:52 · answer #5 · answered by Forgettable 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are love, so, here it goes. To love, like a human, that can be one of three sorts. One, Paternal, that is, like a kid loves his mom, or a Pop, loves his kid. Fraternal, like you love your brothers and sisters, friends, and neighbors, and Eros, like a guy and a gal share, you know, like that. Then there is Agape love, the sort of love that is god.
Love isn't complicated, it's just hard to put it in perspective, it's everywhere. Anyone, that can love will be loved. We are love. You are love, I am love. Relax! Peace :)
2006-07-06 14:48:34 · answer #6 · answered by fromdheart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok personally i tihnk being with the one you love is more saner, some might say go for the one who loves you but is that far to them or you? like yes you would have love but you're not loving them and robbing yourself from a wonderful experience...and also it wouldnt be fair to them because some else might just be out there waiting for them...you are wasting their time...Be with the person you love because you love them!
2006-07-06 14:48:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can be with the one you love but the question really is do you like them?
2006-07-06 14:45:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tis best to love AND be loved, but if one has to choose between loving and being loved, I choose loving. Why? Because in loving we learn, we grow, we extend ourselves beyond what we are right now.
2006-07-06 14:52:42 · answer #9 · answered by shine_radiantstar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having both is the best of both worlds...to both give and recieve one of the most powerful emotions we humans can experience...what could be more grand?!
To love is to give of yourself...a beautiful thing...to be loved means you are so special to someone that they are willing to give of themselves, to you...and incredible compliment!
2006-07-06 14:46:34 · answer #10 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the feeling isn't mutual, Dave, then it's not acceptable to me. Neither of your choices appeals to me. If you choose either or both, someone's heart will be broken.
2006-07-06 14:47:02 · answer #11 · answered by Flame 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋