Our daughter has been on summer break with my sister and my wife reveiled to me she wasnt happy with things and wanted to spend some time apart. We meet a couple of times a week for dinner and her stance has not changed. (a month) we are going on vacation in 3 days and I would like some advise on how to handle things. We will be gone for a week and our daughter will return soon there after. I am taking this much harder than she is. She insist that there is no one else and is just not happy. I want nothing more than to spend the rest of my life with her because I love her more than the world. Please help me!!!
2006-07-06 07:37:42 · 7 answers · asked by vader1779 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Cancel the vacation. See a marriage counselor now and get it all out in the open.
2006-07-06 07:41:29 · answer #1 · answered by Otis F 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oh well you see the answer to your question is no after ten years a woman should be gratefull and happy her marriage is still exist...and not asking to get out , but ok we dont know why she feels like this but you do... my advice for you is to analize your relationship with your wife see what can you do to make her change her mind... and you guys have to talk.. demand to know why she just cant get up and say well is not working for me im not happy and bye,,,she has to have a reason of why she dont feel happy... ask her before we make any desision i think you owe it to me to at least go with me to an couples marriage counselor because you cant just get up and leave with out me understanding wht did i do wrong and maybe i can change and help our marriage.. dont scream or shout this is you asking her to please do one more thing as a couple to the marriage counseling.. and asure her you just need help understanding and she might go and who know that might help and you guys can get together and be happy..what ever it is she is felling is going to come out in a therapy section and then you have something to work with.... when you guys go to the vacation you just concentrate on listening to her and doing some fun things... spend some days together and then ask her as a favor to you and one last resort to go with you to a marriage counselor..i hope everything work out for you man.. i feel your pain.. good luck.
2006-07-06 07:51:48 · answer #2 · answered by boricua_2290 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What otis said.
If that doesn't work some practical advice. See your lawyer, your own lawyer not the family guy. Best to be ready if she hits you with divorce papers. If you left the house get your @$$ back in there now. Otherwise she can claim that you moved out. If she feels she needs to be apart let her stay at the motel. Start keeping a close eye on your bank accounts.
2006-07-06 07:51:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say go on the vacation together and have some time alone together...talk to each other...make her feel special. Get everything out in the open and try to start to resolve the issue....tell her what you truly feel and help her do the same. It's so sad to see and hear about these things happening...good luck hun.
2006-07-06 07:48:40 · answer #4 · answered by Nikki B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go on the vacation and spend some time together and talk things over. If that doesn't resolve anything, then ask her to go to marriage counseling when you guys get home. She owes you at least that.
2006-07-06 08:00:19 · answer #5 · answered by SweetPea 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SHE'S TELLING LIES! THERE IS ANOTHER MAN IN HER LIFE!!! No one just ups and leaves if they care about you without some kind of outside help. When your married - you just don't put in for a break unless - your trying to find another life. Sounds like she's cheating and can't be honest. Ask her to go to marriage counseling with you so that you can really find out why she's so unhappy if she can't tell you to your face what it is.
2006-07-06 07:54:27 · answer #6 · answered by Leila 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-05 23:54:29 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋